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Connecting You with Your Self, (CYWY) a free online community formed in 2006 offering a time and place to learn and grow within a community.  Learn more about who we are and what we offer at www.connectingyouwithyourself.com.  

"When we have a solid relationship with ourselves, we can confidently go after the life we desire.  The opinions, and judgments of other people become irrelevant.  Life opens up in ways we haven't even imagined possible.  New people and opportunities present themselves.  Magic unfolds." 

CYWY events are free and accessible via Zoom.  Opportunities include yoga, Intentional Living Circles, Empowered Living Chats, a book study, a Relationship Support Group, and a "Good" Grief Support Group. 

CYWY also has many recorded events that you can view on Connecting You with Your Self - YouTube 

CYWY has two Facebook groups 
https://www.facebook.com/groups/connectingyouwithyourself 
and 
https://www.facebook.com/groups/EnneagramType2/

"The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself.  All other relationships will be reflected by it.  You can't have a healthy relationship with anyone else until you have a successful relationship with yourself."

See you on Zoom!  
Nancy Markow

Upcoming events

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  •  Three Ways of Coping: Enneagram Types Under Stress w/Sophia Carmien
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    Three Ways of Coping: Enneagram Types Under Stress w/Sophia Carmien

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    An Intentional Living Circle
    A Connecting You with Your Self Event
    Learn more about CYWY at
    www.connectingyouwithyourself.com
    CYWY is a free online community where insight meets authenticity.

    Discover how the Enneagram’s harmonic triads reveal three distinct
    ways of coping with life’s challenges. Explore how each type uses its style to regulate emotion, what strengths and limits come with it, and how understanding these patterns can open space for choice, connection, and compassion.

    Title: Three Ways of Coping: Enneagram Types Under Stress

    Description: Each of us learns a way to cope with the struggles and conflicts that come with living life as a human being. The Enneagram describes three primary approaches known as the harmonic triads: positive outlook, emotional realism, and competency. Each triad offers a particular way of regulating emotion and navigating challenges when things get difficult.

    In this session, we will explore how each triad functions and how the types within it engage with their preferred coping style. We will look at the strengths and challenges of each approach and consider how your own style supports or limits you in daily life. We will also explore how these patterns influence communication and conflict, especially when people use different coping strategies. Through reflection and dialogue, we will examine what happens when our usual way of coping is no longer effective and how awareness can open new choices for responding to life with greater flexibility and understanding.

    Bio: Sophia Carmien is an Enneagram teacher and guide who helps people reconnect with their deeper selves by bringing awareness to inner patterns and expanding what’s possible. After experiencing profound transformation through her own work with the Enneagram, she now shares this tool of ancient wisdom with others. Through teaching, workshops, and one-on-one work, she supports the shift from habitual reactivity to a life of freedom and empowered authenticity.
    Website: www.essentialwholeness. life

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  • Experience the Power in Creativity (in-person gathering)

    Experience the Power in Creativity (in-person gathering)

    Location not specified yet

    Enneagram Colorado IEA is an affiliate (chapter) of the International Enneagram Association. Learn more about Enneagram Colorado IEA at www.EnneagramColorado.org

    In-Person Monthly Members focus on connections, building community, networking, and learning from each other.
    To learn more and share your registration, go to the events tab at www.EnneagramColorado.org

    Everyone is invited to purchase their own dinner, then spend dinner time meeting other Enneagram enthusiasts and entrepreneurs. Each person is given time to introduce themselves and answer a question related to the evening's presentation topic. There is a space for sharing marketing materials and you can volunteer to be a presenter too! Being a presenter is a great way for you to share questions about the Enneagram or offer instruction, promoting your Enneagram practice.

    This month's Presenter: Sophia Carmien
    Description: Not every challenge is a problem to be solved. Some are polarities to be managed. The Enneagram symbol is full of polarities! This month, we will explore how seemingly opposing forces (like structure and flexibility, independence and connection, action and rest) can form a dynamic system rather than a conflict with a “right” side. Instead of choosing one and eliminating the other, we’ll explore how to move wisely between both poles to access the strengths of each.

    Bio: Sophia Carmien is an Enneagram teacher and guide who helps people reconnect with their deeper selves by bringing awareness to inner patterns and expanding what’s possible. After experiencing profound transformation through her own work with the Enneagram, she now shares this tool of ancient wisdom with others. Through teaching, workshops, and one-on-one work, she supports the shift from habitual reactivity to a life of freedom and empowered authenticity.

    Register at www.enneagramcolorado.org
    Space is limited - register/join today!!

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  • Group Energy Alignment w/Anca Kuns
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    Group Energy Alignment w/Anca Kuns

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    Learn more about Connecting You with Your Self at www.connectingyouwithyourself.com

    Guide: Anca Kuns, Usui Reiki Master www.beyondorionenergy.com www.youtube.com/@ancakuns

    Topic: Topic:
    The Breath That Knows

    A Harmonic Breath Series for Nervous System Coherence
    Description:
    Step into a field of resonance where your body remembers what the mind cannot explain.
    “The Breath That Knows” is an ongoing energy alignment series dedicated to helping you develop embodied coherence through guided breath, subtle awareness, and energetic stabilization. Each session invites your nervous system to harmonize with what is already true—beneath tension, beyond thought.

    What to Expect:

    • Gentle group attunement through harmonic-informed breath
    • Nervous system recalibration without force
    • Deep stillness, presence, and body-centered insight
    • Space to reflect and integrate in a supportive field

    This isn’t performance or breathwork as exertion—this is energetic listening through breath, revealing the intelligence already within you.
    No prior experience required. Just bring yourself and your breath.

    Hosted in an intimate, grounded setting.
    You’ll leave each session clearer, lighter, and more you.

    Note on arriving late:
    I allow a 5–7 minute settling-in window at the start. After that, the space closes to new arrivals (especially if I don't recognize your name) to honor the group’s focus. Thank you for respecting the container and everyone present.
    I see you.
    I celebrate you.

    To receive Anca's weekly message, contact her directly or go to www.connectingyouwithyourself.com, calendar of events tab.

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  • Empowered Chats - Enneagram from its roots to its wings w/Nancy Markow
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    Empowered Chats - Enneagram from its roots to its wings w/Nancy Markow

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    Empowered Living Chats w/Nancy Markow
    Empowered Living Chats supports you to learn, experience, and use the Enneagram wisdom to support you and others in your everyday life. It is one of the offerings from Connecting You with Your Self - learn more about CYWY and Nancy Markow at
    www.connectingyouwithyourself.com

    We are using the Empowered Living, Enneagram workbook, from its roots to its wings. If you don't have a copy, please reach out for one.

    Each week, we will explore a topic.

    To learn what the topic is and the suggested reading and to prepare for the chat, log onto www.connectingyouwithyourself.com.

    The tab "Calendar of events" will take you to the event and show you the topic and suggested reading.

    Request the workbook using the "more" and the "connect tab."

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