About us
Our events are all about creating real connections through fun, low pressure activities. Instead of awkward icebreakers or stiff lectures, we plan things like sunset kite flying by the lake, cozy picnic meetups, and seasonal outdoor adventures. These aren't your typical speed dating nights they're relaxed social mixers where conversation flows naturally. We find that when people are doing something enjoyable together, genuine interactions happen without the usual dating stress. It's less about performing and more about just being yourself while sharing a moment with someone new.
Between events, members stay involved through our private chat community where we share event recaps, plan informal hangouts, and keep the conversations going. It's a warm, active space where people post about their week, recommend local coffee spots, or just say hi. Many connections that start at an event continue here, and sometimes little meetups pop up spontaneously like a group hike or a board game night. It's not about constant texting it's about building continuity so relationships can grow at a natural pace.
We're here for locals who are ready for something real not just another swipe or casual fling. If you're someone who values honesty, emotional maturity, and meaningful connection, you'll fit right in. We attract thoughtful professionals, creative souls, and down to earth people who still believe in love but want to find it in a setting that feels authentic. Whether you're reentering the dating world or just tired of superficial apps, this is a space where you can be intentional about who you meet and how you connect.
Safety and respect are non negotiable for us. Everyone who joins agrees to a simple code of conduct that emphasizes kindness, active listening, and personal boundaries. We vet members to ensure sincerity and moderation is built into our chat space to keep things positive. Our event hosts are trained to spot discomfort and step in if needed, and we always encourage members to trust their instincts. This isn't just a fun group it's a safe one, where everyone can feel seen and respected from the first hello.
If you're ready to meet people who are looking for the same thing you are something real, rooted in shared moments and honest conversation, then we'd love to have you. The Ichorous Fondness Kite Club isn't about flashy gimmicks or crowded bars it's about flying kites under open skies, laughing over shared snacks, and finding someone who just gets you. Come as you are, with no pressure, and see where a simple connection might lead. We're building a community of hearts ready to land in the right place and you might just belong here.
Upcoming events
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Bakersfield Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
4707 Venice Blvd., Los Angeles, CA, US💓 Beginner-Friendly Speed Dating – Connect Virtually, Feel Right at Home!
⚠️ PLEASE READ: Just RSVPing Won't Confirm Your Place!
To attend this event, click your age group sign-up link below, register, and complete the brief personality quiz. Capacity is strictly limited – don't wait!
✅ First Step: Choose Your Age Group & Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🤝 Fed up with swiping and getting nowhere? Real chats are way better! This isn't a standard dating event. It's a curated, online experience where newcomers meet compatible Bakersfield singles in a relaxed, hosted setting. No pressure – just potential.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Singles who feel most at ease connecting from home first
- Beginners who want to date without the stress of face-to-face encounters
- People wanting to meet local Bakersfield singles without stepping outside
- Newcomers who want a relaxed, hosted experience
- Remote workers who enjoy the flexibility of virtual meetups
How It Works
- Select Your Session – Pick the age group that suits you and claim your spot.
- Complete the Quick Compatibility Quiz – Helps us match you with like-minded Bakersfield newcomers.
- Jump on Zoom – Your host will greet you and guide you through everything.
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through enjoyable one-on-one rounds with Bakersfield singles who share your energy.
- Discover Your Matches – We’ll let you know about any mutual interest afterwards. The rest is up to you!
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom meetup – feels like you're in the same room
- Location: Your favourite cosy spot – connect from wherever you feel best
- Host: Skilled facilitator who guides first-time speed daters with patience
- Vibe: Welcoming, judgement-free conversations with singles from the Bakersfield area
💡 Top tip: Good lighting and a tidy background make a big difference on Zoom dates.
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✨ Real people, real conversations, real connections – all from your living room. ✨ ✨36 attendees
Fresno Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
1008 E 76th St, Los Angeles, CA, US❤️🔥 Speed Dating Reinvented – Virtual, Chill & Ideal for Beginners!
🔴 PLEASE READ: RSVP Alone Won't Secure Entry!
To participate, you must: (1) Click your age group link below, (2) Finish registration, and (3) Complete the personality quiz. Limited places available – sign up now before they're taken!
🎯 Pick Your Age Group & Sign Up Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🤝 Fed up with swiping and getting nowhere? Real chats are way better! We created this event for people who are over the apps but aren't ready for loud mixers. It's the perfect middle ground – online, personal, hosted, and filled with genuine Fresno singles seeking real connections.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Quiet or reserved singles who open up better in private conversations
- First-time speed daters excited to try something different
- Anyone giving speed dating a go for the very first time
- Working professionals who prioritise their time and comfort
- Anyone who thinks real chemistry begins with real conversation
How It Works
- Sign Up for Your Age Group – Pick the session that matches your age range above and finish registration.
- Complete the Quick Compatibility Quiz – Helps us match you with like-minded Fresno newcomers.
- Hop on Zoom – Pour yourself a drink, get settled, and let the host walk you through each round.
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy hosted, structured chats with friendly Fresno singles.
- Get Your Matches – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start building a real connection!
Event Details
- Format: Live on Zoom – simple to join, private, and newcomer-friendly
- Location: Anywhere you have Wi-Fi – your sofa, your café, your pick
- Host: Friendly, professional host focused on making everyone comfortable
- Vibe: A cosy, supportive atmosphere where Fresno singles open up with ease
- Support: Our host is on hand before, during, and after the event
- Rounds: Several short rounds so you can meet plenty of people
- Matching: Driven by our personality quiz for stronger compatibility
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered straight to your inbox
⭐ "I was really nervous, but the host made it so easy. I met someone wonderful on my very first try!" – Newcomer from Fresno
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✨ Life’s too short for bad dates. Try a brilliant one – from home! 💘 ✨37 attendees
Sacramento Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
6634 Corona Ave, Los Angeles, CA, US💓 Speed Dating for Beginners – Connect with Like-Minded Singles from Home!
🚨 DON'T SKIP THIS: RSVP Does Not Mean Entry!
To lock in your spot, click the link for your age group below, sign up, and complete the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – claim your place today!
🎯 Pick Your Age Group & Sign Up Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🔑 The key to amazing first dates? Being comfortable. Begin right here! Virtual speed dating is ideal for newcomers. Connect with like-minded local singles right from your own home – zero pressure, no packed venues, just authentic connections in a welcoming, safe space.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone giving speed dating a go for the very first time
- People after meaningful connections in a laid-back setting
- People wanting to meet local Sacramento singles without stepping outside
- Singles who feel uneasy about meeting in person and prefer starting from home
- Singles looking for a secure, comfortable virtual environment
How It Works
- Find Your Age Group – Locate your age range above and click to sign up.
- Do the Short Personality Assessment – This lets us optimise your matches for the night.
- Hop on Zoom – Pour yourself a drink, get settled, and let the host walk you through each round.
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Sacramento singles – all from your sofa.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the interest is mutual, we’ll connect you!
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based event – connect right from your own home
- Location: Your favourite cosy spot – connect from wherever you feel best
- Host: Skilled facilitator who guides first-time speed daters with patience
- Vibe: Light-hearted, casual speed dates with open-minded Sacramento singles
- Privacy: Your contact details are never shared without mutual agreement
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or mobile
- Duration: Roughly 1–1.5 hours of hosted speed dating rounds
- Support: Our host is on hand before, during, and after the event
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✨ Amazing connections begin with a single conversation. Yours could start this evening! 💖 ✨37 attendees
Long Beach Character-Matched Online Speed Dating
Alameda / Arcadia, Los Angeles, CA, US💝 Start Your Speed Dating Journey Here – Online, Simple & Relaxed!
🔴 KEY NOTICE: RSVP ≠ Guaranteed Entry!
You must sign up via your age group link below AND finish the personality quiz. This is required to take part. Limited places – register right away to avoid missing out!
📌 Sign Up for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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💡 Intrigued by speed dating but feeling nervous? We've got your back! Virtual speed dating is ideal for newcomers. Connect with like-minded local singles right from your own home – zero pressure, no packed venues, just authentic connections in a welcoming, safe space.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Curious newcomers eager to give speed dating a shot
- People after meaningful connections in a laid-back setting
- First-time speed daters after a friendly, easy-going experience
- Working professionals who prioritise their time and comfort
- Singles who feel most at ease connecting from home first
How It Works
- Sign Up for Your Age Group – Pick the session that matches your age range above and finish registration.
- Complete the Quick Compatibility Quiz – Helps us match you with like-minded Long Beach newcomers.
- Go Live – Enter the Zoom room, say hi to your host, and get ready for a brilliant night.
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Long Beach singles – all from your sofa.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the interest is mutual, we’ll connect you!
Event Details
- Format: Live on Zoom – simple to join, private, and newcomer-friendly
- Location: Your own space – the comfiest date venue you could ask for
- Host: Experienced speed dating host with a knack for putting newcomers at ease
- Vibe: Engaging, live chats with Long Beach singles – no scripts, just good vibes
- Icebreakers: Entertaining prompts provided to keep chats flowing
- Rounds: Several short rounds so you can meet plenty of people
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or mobile
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered straight to your inbox
💡 Pro tip: Have a beverage ready and find a quiet, well-lit area for the best experience.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don't match with anyone?
That's totally fine! Many people attend a few events before finding their match. Each one is a fresh opportunity.What if my internet drops out?
No stress – our host will help you get reconnected. Technical hiccups happen and we're ready for them!Do I need any speed dating experience?
Not at all! This event is built specifically for newcomers. Our host walks you through every step.---
✨ Amazing connections begin with a single conversation. Yours could start this evening! 💓 ✨37 attendees
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