What we’re about
This is a group for ladies over 30, who are young at heart, want to have fun, make new friends and give Meetup a go. Activities will be diverse - informal coffee meetings and chat, art gallery and museum visits, dinners out, movies, theatre and much more.
The overall objective is to create small social events that bring ladies together in fun and safe spaces, to make new and meaningful connections (both inside and outside the group), and to support those who want to dip their toe into Meetup.
Any Meetup - big or small - can make all the difference to someone who wants to make new connections.
To keep the group running and pay Meetup for hosting, will cost us £290 per year. We do not ask for a membership fee but an optional donation, at your discretion, will help support the participation of those who may not be in a position to give.❤️
Please donate via paypal (@Pamk300) & reference it as "fee donation", or give to Pam or Kyra in person🙏. We will never ask you.
Staying Safe
Meetup is a fantastic platform to meet a great wealth and diversity of people and this group aims to facilitate and foster that. Equally, please introduce yourself into Meetup slowly and discerningly.
Get to know people first, use the app to message members and be mindful and protective of your mobile number, your home location, and your personal circumstances until you have been in contact with someone a number of times.
As this is a private group, and we are voluntary, membership is at the reasonable discretion of the main organisers.
POLICY
Dignity and Respect : Belfast Ladies Social Group (BLSG)
Purpose
BLSG has adopted a policy of dignity and respect as it's core value and seeks in all it's events, to be a genuinely compassionate group and to integrate and promote dignity and respect in every aspect of it's activities.
BLSG is committed to providing a positive environment in which everyone is treated with dignity, respect and courtesy. We are proud of the diversity of membership and it's shared community and seek to ensure that each individual is treated with dignity and respect and that the different experiences, abilities and skills of each individual are valued by others.
The purpose of this policy is to foster an environment in which bullying, harassment and intimidation are acknowledged as unacceptable and are not tolerated by BLSG members and organisers. It is important that all members of BLSG should be able to recognise, challenge, and where necessary, complain about bullying and harassment should it arise, with confidence that their concerns will be treated in good faith, and investigated fairly and appropriately.
Scope
This policy applies to all members. It should be used to deal with any incidents of bullying, harassment, intimidation and inappropriate touching /behaviour in the organisation. BLSG seeks to resolve such issues as quickly as possible and recommends that where possible an informal approach should be adopted. If the behaviour concerned is a continuation of previous behaviour, or is of a serious nature in the first instance, formal proceedings will be pursued by BLSG organisers with immediate suspension of the said member during this period. Cases will be investigated maintaining the confidentiality of both parties as far as possible, although witnesses may need to be interviewed to collect evidence. In serious cases, BLSG may need to take immediate action, which could involve dismissal from membership and a reference to the police in cases of criminal behaviour.
Principles
For dignity and respect to be embedded in the culture of the group, BLSG seeks to develop an environment in which every individual is valued and respected. It is the impact on the recipient of a particular form of behaviour, and not the intention of the perpetrator, that will define whether this policy is relevant in dealing with the impact.
In line with this policy, BLSG will treat all allegations seriously and in good faith and investigate all allegations in a timely manner.
All BLSG organsiers and members are responsible for their own behaviour and it is expected that all individuals will comply with the standards of behaviour laid out in this policy.
Definitions:
Harassment is defined by the Equality Act as, ‘unwanted conduct, which has the purpose or effect of violating an individual’s dignity or creating an intimidating, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment for that individual.’ BLSG will, of course, seek to apply the spirit and letter of the Act, but it also considers harassment and / or bullying on any grounds to be unacceptable, and will deal with all allegations appropriately.
Victimisation is a type of harassment. This occurs when an individual treats another individual less favourably because she has alleged that harassment has occurred or is helping someone else to do so.
The Equality Act protects individuals against harassment by considering whether the conduct that has taken place falls within the definition of harassment.
People have the right to complain about behaviour they find personally offensive even if it wasn’t directed at them e.g – a male worker can complain about sexist remarks about a female worker (whether or not she was present when the remarks were made).
Examples of harassment include (but are not limited to):
§ Unwanted physical contact *
§ Unwelcome remarks or jokes about, for example, a person’s age, appearance, marital status
§ Unwelcome advances, attention or propositions
§ Unwelcome written or visual communication such as posters, graffiti or offensive gestures
§ Intrusive questioning
§ Publicising, or threatening to publicise the sexual orientation of someone without their permission
§ Misuse of the internet and social networking sites to ridicule or harass
§ Persistent unwanted communication
§ Isolation, non-cooperation, or deliberate exclusion of an individual from a work or study situation.
Bullying is not specifically defined by law but can be characterised as offensive, intimidating, malicious or insulting behaviour, or an abuse or misuse of power, which has the effect of undermining, humiliating or injuring the recipient.
Bullying can be carried out by an individual or a group. It can take many forms, including someone in authority bullying an individual, peer to peer, or an individual to a line manager.
Examples of bullying may include (but are not limited to):
§ Exclusion with negative consequences e.g - essential information being purposefully withheld so a task may be delayed
§ Verbal abuse / insults
§ Persistently ignoring or patronising an individual
§ Being treated less favourably than other colleagues
§ Persistent unjustified criticism
§ Being pressured into behaviours or actions against the wishes of the individual
§ Intimidation
§ Blame for things beyond the control of the individual
§ Threatening behaviour or communications including online/emails/social media
Rights and Responsibilities
BLSG organisers and members, have a responsibility to foster and to contribute towards the creation and maintenance of a culture of dignity and respect. Inappropriate behaviour should be challenged. The organisers should lead by example and take prompt action to prevent and stop harassment and bullying when it occurs.
BLSG organisers and members can expect to:
§ Be treated with dignity, respect and courtesy
§ Be able to work, study or visit free from unfair treatment, bullying, harassment or victimisation
§ Be valued for their skills, abilities and experiences.
and, reciprocally, BLSG organisers and members, are expected to:
§ Familiarise themselves with the content of this policy
§ Treat all members of BLSG with dignity, respect and courtesy
§ Contribute towards a positive social and networking culture within BLSG events
§ Challenge or report unacceptable behaviour
§ Be mindful of others when expressing views
§ Cooperate with investigations into harassment and bullying.
§ Establish an inclusive social environment for all members of the Group.
Updated January 2025