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Beyond the Surface : FLINTA sessions

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Beyond the Surface : FLINTA sessions

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Welcome to Beyond the Surface: FLINTA sessions

ROUND II - FLINTA sessions (NOT A DATING EVENT)
Now over a year old, Beyond the Surface continues to grow and shift—just like the people who step into it. Originally imagined as a space to meet others beyond the small talk and surface impressions, it has evolved into something deeper: a place where vulnerability is met with openness, and connection is prioritized over expectation.

This next event of the three-part series takes place in a brand-new space. In the heart of Kreuzkölln, Tischendorf has welcomed us in. It may not be our forever home, but it will be a beautiful space to gather again—with intention and presence.

This time, the invitation goes out to FLINTAs. If you identify as Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Transgender, or Agender, come and join us.
Unlike the first event of the series—which took a more traditional dating angle—we're letting go of the pressure to perform, impress, or match. This is NOT a dating event. It’s about meeting each other as we are. Whether you come alone or with friends, this is a space to make new connections, deepen old ones, and take off the judgment goggles society trains us to wear.

Let’s see what happens when we simply show up—with curiosity, care, and openness.

Here’s how it works:
🔮You arrive (6:30, - 7pm - no one allowed in after 7) and welcome you with a free drink. We've got some yummy spritzers with and without alcohol and other options to choose from.

🔮Sharlene will be the host of the event and curate your interactions with the use of her Intimacy Cards. These cards have "Emotional Intimacy" questions (you will answer with 1 partner that changes with every new card). There are also Physical and Energetic Intimacy cards that Sharlene will select to help you connect playfully and intentionally with different people throughout the evening. There are two rounds with a break in the middle. You can then continue to connect after the second round.

WHO IS THIS EVENT FOR? --- If you desire more meaningful conversations that help you reveal your authentic self and you find it hard to make friends or meet people you can actually connect with, this event is for you. No masks, no walls, just be yourself and be surprised how people respond with kindness and openness. Magic happens when you meet someone face to face, when the vibe is right.
This isn’t about dating. It's an experiment on how to create intimacy with strangers. Non-sexual, no expectations. It’s a curated experiences with engaging activities, where you actually meet people in a way that feels natural. Whether you leave with a new number, a new friend, or just a fun story to tell, we promise you won’t leave feeling like you wasted your time.

Ready to meet your people? Let’s do this.
📅 Dates & Details Coming Soon for the Round III (for queer men)! Join the telegram group for updates or follow @intimacycards on ig.

For tickets, get your's at https://buytickets.at/121projects/1754002
Price includes a free welcome drink upon arrival.

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Tischendorf
Friedelstraße 25 · Berlin