Melbourne Sex Friendly Events

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Step outside the ordinary - join us at Polly Bar for an evening of burlesque, cocktails and connection.

About the Event
Are you open-minded, accepting, and curious about exploring love in unique ways through ethical non-monogamy, kink, or shibari? Perhaps you’re into consensual power dynamics, bondage as a form of trust and connection, or simply navigating relationships with flexibility? If you're eager to connect with like-minded people who share your values and experiences, step beyond the ordinary and join PolyFinda at Polly Bar, join PolyFinda at Polly Bar for a celebration of love in all its forms. Connect with like-minded people in a welcoming, inclusive space, enjoy expertly crafted cocktails, and experience top-tier, sex-positive entertainment. Come embrace connection, freedom, and fun with us!

What to Expect:

• Stunning live performances from Melbourne’s top burlesque talent.
• Engaging, interactive icebreaker games with exciting prizes.
• Tasty, creative cocktails crafted by expert bartenders.
• A welcoming, supportive, and open-minded community of attendees ready to connect and celebrate.

Performance Line Up
Jan Hell
Jan Hell blasted in from a galaxy not so far away, and while May the 4th may have passed, she's still bringing the force with a Star Wars strip-tease that's out of this world.
Check out her instagram for a taste of what's to come.

Peach Flambe
With her signature blend of burlesque glamour and fairy charm, Peach brings an irresistible allure to the stage that’s impossible to resist. Sometimes serious, sometimes cute, but always fabulously magical, her performances weave classic elegance with a dash of mystical enchantment.
Check out her instagram for a taste of what's to come.

About Polyfinda
Curious about exploring life beyond the mainstream? PolyFinda is a global community app designed for those who embrace a different way of living and loving. Connect with like-minded individuals who share your unique interests. With enhanced search features for kink and shibari connections, it’s easier than ever to find your perfect match. Download the app now from the iOS and Android app stores.

About the Venue
Featuring a lavish, sophisticated interior inspired by the red velvet and vintage burlesque charm of the Parisian Moulin Rouge, Polly Bar is Melbourne’s ultimate destination for decadent cocktails. Explore their extensive selection of cocktails, absinthe, and cigars, or test the creativity of the bartenders by crafting your own bespoke drink.

Terms of Entry
By purchasing a ticket you agree to these terms of entry:

• This is a non-play meetup.
• We are a consent based community and always ask permission before making physical contact - including a hug.
• This is a safe and inclusive space for all and as such, PolyFinda has a zero tolerance policy for inappropriate behaviour, discrimination or harassment. We reserve the right to eject any person(s) creating an unsafe environment through inappropriate, discriminatory or harassing behaviour.

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Step into a world of sensual artistry and breathtaking restraint at Unleashed: A Shibari Performance Night. This immersive evening will showcase the mesmerizing beauty of rope bondage through live performances by skilled riggers and models, each weaving a story of tension, trust, and surrender. Set in an intimate, dimly lit atmosphere, the event blends performance art with raw emotion, highlighting the elegance, vulnerability, and power of shibari. Whether you're a longtime admirer of rope art or new to the experience, Unleashed invites you to witness the stunning interplay of form, movement, and connection.
Beyond the performances, guests can enjoy a curated ambiance and the opportunity to connect with like-minded individuals who appreciate the beauty of bondage as an art form. The venue features full bar offerings, a spacious outdoor area, and an intimate breakout room perfect for mingling and meeting new friends.

Come with an open mind, leave with a newfound appreciation for the art of restraint.

Performance Line Up
…coming soon

About the organisers

Polyfinda
Curious about exploring life beyond the mainstream? PolyFinda is a global community app designed for those who embrace a different way of living and loving. Connect with like-minded individuals who share your unique interests. With enhanced search features for kink and shibari connections, it’s easier than ever to find your perfect match. Download the app now from the iOS and Android app stores.

Rope Dojo
Melbourne's premiere studio for hojojutsu, shibari and kinbaku.

Tickets available here!

Step into a world of intimate artistry and freedom at this one-of-a-kind evening brought to you by PolyFinda, RopeDojo and Between Friends Wine Bar. This exclusive event invites you to experience shibari in a new light—unrestricted and deeply expressive. Enjoy stunning performances by Melbourne’s leading shibari artists, alongside exciting premieres from local talent pushing the boundaries of creativity. Set in a carefully curated atmosphere, Raw Rope offers a rare opportunity to witness the beauty and depth of rope art without the usual limitations. Come for the performances, stay for the connection and creativity.

Performance Line Up
...coming soon!

Performances may include nudity, actual and implied sexual activity, and other kink themes including but not limited to impact play, rough body play and consensual non-consensual themes.

About the organisers
Polyfinda
Curious about exploring life beyond the mainstream? PolyFinda is a global community app designed for those who embrace a different way of living and loving. Connect with like-minded individuals who share your unique interests. With enhanced search features for kink and shibari connections, it’s easier than ever to find your perfect match. Download the app now from the iOS and Android app stores.

Rope Dojo
Melbourne's premiere studio for hojojutsu, shibari and kinbaku.