
What we’re about
We usually host our meetups on weekend evenings think Friday or Saturday nights because that’s when folks in Memphis can unwind and really connect without the weekday rush. The timing gives everyone a chance to relax, enjoy good company, and take things slow in a comfortable setting. Whether it’s a cozy wine tasting, a low key dinner gathering, or a scenic riverside stroll, our events are designed to feel natural and stress free.
Our main goal is simple: to help locals find real, meaningful relationships. We’re not about quick matches or flashy first impressions. Instead, we focus on creating space for genuine connections to grow at a pace that feels right. This is for people who are serious about finding love and aren’t afraid to take the time to build something lasting.
After events, members often stay in touch through casual check ins and group chats, sharing stories from the night or making plans to meet up again. The group has become a trusted circle where people feel comfortable reaching out, knowing others are on the same journey. It’s less about constant texting and more about maintaining that warm, friendly vibe that starts at our events.
If you're tired of swiping and small talk, and you're ready to meet people who value honesty, connection, and taking things one step at a time, then this is the place for you. Memphis Slow And Steady Romance is more than just events it’s a community built on intention. Come join us and see where a slower, more thoughtful approach to love can lead.
Upcoming events
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Memphis Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 20-35
2941 Riverport Rd, Memphis, TN, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 20-35.
Tired of swiping? Imagine laughing over a glass of wine with someone who just gets it — no pressure, no scripts, just real conversation. Our next speed dating event in Memphis is your chance to step out of the routine and into meaningful connections, face-to-face.
Here’s what makes it different: 1) Short, fun chats with local singles — no awkward timing, we guide every round. 2) A relaxed vibe in a cozy social space where friendships start easy. 3) A quick personality survey before you arrive, so we match you with people who click. 4) Zero app fatigue — just authentic, in-the-moment connection.
Most guests are trying this for the first time — and leave surprised by how natural it feels. Whether you're looking for love or just great conversation, this is your refreshingly human alternative.
Spots are limited — reserve yours and complete your personality survey today: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Stay open. Walk away with a spark.
1 attendee
Memphis Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 33-48
1271 S Orleans St, Memphis, TN, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 33-48.
Tired of swiping? Imagine laughing over a glass of wine with someone who just gets it — no pressure, no scripts, just real conversation. Our next speed dating event in Memphis is your chance to step out of the routine and into meaningful connections, face-to-face.
Here’s what makes it different: 1) Short, fun chats with local singles — no awkward timing, we guide every round. 2) A relaxed vibe in a cozy social space where friendships start easy. 3) A quick personality survey before you arrive, so we match you with people who click. 4) Zero app fatigue — just authentic, in-the-moment connection.
Most guests are trying this for the first time — and leave surprised by how natural it feels. Whether you're looking for love or just great conversation, this is your refreshingly human alternative.
Spots are limited — reserve yours and complete your personality survey today: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Stay open. Walk away with a spark.
1 attendee
Memphis Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 45-58
4V38+W4 Memphis, Memphis, TN, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 45-58.
Tired of swiping? Imagine laughing over a glass of wine with someone who just gets it — no pressure, no scripts, just real conversation. Our next speed dating event in Memphis is your chance to step out of the routine and into meaningful connections, face-to-face.
Here’s what makes it different: 1) Short, fun chats with local singles — no awkward timing, we guide every round. 2) A relaxed vibe in a cozy social space where friendships start easy. 3) A quick personality survey before you arrive, so we match you with people who click. 4) Zero app fatigue — just authentic, in-the-moment connection.
Most guests are trying this for the first time — and leave surprised by how natural it feels. Whether you're looking for love or just great conversation, this is your refreshingly human alternative.
Spots are limited — reserve yours and complete your personality survey today: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Stay open. Walk away with a spark.
1 attendee
Memphis Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 55+
80 Tillman St, Memphis, TN, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 55+.
Tired of swiping? Imagine laughing over a glass of wine with someone who just gets it — no pressure, no scripts, just real conversation. Our next speed dating event in Memphis is your chance to step out of the routine and into meaningful connections, face-to-face.
Here’s what makes it different: 1) Short, fun chats with local singles — no awkward timing, we guide every round. 2) A relaxed vibe in a cozy social space where friendships start easy. 3) A quick personality survey before you arrive, so we match you with people who click. 4) Zero app fatigue — just authentic, in-the-moment connection.
Most guests are trying this for the first time — and leave surprised by how natural it feels. Whether you're looking for love or just great conversation, this is your refreshingly human alternative.
Spots are limited — reserve yours and complete your personality survey today: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Stay open. Walk away with a spark.
1 attendee