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-Are You feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, burned out & nervous, get angry easily.
-Are You experience emotional pain (feeling misunderstood, judged, not heard)
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- learn practical ways to heal, let go of the past and create freedom
Check out our social skills workshops on this group run by Social Shortcuts. We offer one to one coaching for social skills including a free trial session. For more information or to book a free trial session go to our website https://www.socialshortcuts.com or email info@socialshortcuts.com
We also have a WhatsApp chat where we discuss social skills & you can ask questions. You can join by clicking here - https://chat.whatsapp.com/FazOw62casTFM9fAU1tAp2
We have a video course on how to never run out of things to say plus overcoming nervousness in social situations you can also see by visiting our website.
We have almost 180000 followers on TikTok & post regular social skills videos - https://www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts.com
We are also on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/socialshortcuts
Check out our social skills coaching events with Social Shortcuts on this group. Hope to see you there!
## Are you struggling with overwhelm, stress, fear, depression or anxiety?
- Do you worry a lot about what others think of you?
- Do you assume it’s your fault when someone rejects you or seems uninterested?
- Is it hard for you to approach people or join in conversations?
- After spending time with others, do you tend to dwell on and criticize your “performance?”
- Do you often feel bad about yourself ?
If you answered “yes” Then this Group is for You .
As humans, we’re meant to be social creatures.
Having friends makes us happier and healthier—in fact, being socially connected is key to our mental and emotional health. Yet many of us are shy and socially introverted.
We feel awkward around unfamiliar people, unsure of what to say, or worried about what others might think of us. This can cause us to avoid social situations, cut ourselves off from others, and gradually become isolated and lonely.
Loneliness is a common problem among people of all ages and backgrounds, and yet it’s something that most of us hesitate to admit. But loneliness is nothing to feel ashamed about. Sometimes, it’s a result of external circumstances: you’ve moved to a new area, for example. In such cases, there are lots of steps you can take to meet new people and turn acquaintances into friends.
But what if you’re struggling with shyness, social insecurity, or a long-standing difficulty making friends? The truth is that none of us are born with social skills. They’re things we learn over time—and the good news is that you can learn them, too.
No matter how nervous you feel in the company of others, you can learn to silence self-critical thoughts, boost your self-esteem, and become more confident in your interactions with others. You don’t have to change your personality, but by learning new skills and adopting a different outlook you can overcome shyness or social awkwardness, banish loneliness, and enjoy strong, fulfilling friendships.
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## Tackling social insecurity and fear
When it comes to shyness and social awkwardness, the things we tell ourselves make a huge difference. Here are some common thinking patterns that can undermine your confidence and fuel social insecurity:
- Believing that you’re boring, unlikeable, or weird.
- Believing that other people are evaluating and judging you in social situations.
- Believing that you’ll be rejected and criticised if you make a social mistake.
- Believing that being rejected or socially embarrassed would be awful and devastating.
- Believing that what others think about you defines who you are.
If you believe these things, it’s no wonder social situations seem terrifying! But the truth is never quite so black-and-white.
we invite qualified health and wellness coaches and speakers to run these workshop.
My name is sandal i am qualified life coach .
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Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Singles Social & Party, Putney, Comp Drink, Roof Terrace! Happy Hour! AllSimmons Bar, London
Host: Kamal
*This event is a collaboration with other meetup groups and social networks and it will be well attended
*To attend this event you need to buy a ticket from
Single people mixing and mingling, partying and dancing in the heart of Putney, while keeping their eyes open trying to spot that special one that will make their heart jump
Whether you are looking for a partner or just to meet and connect with other people who are at the same phase of life, this is the event for you!
You never know who you are going meet in this evening and that is the beauty of it! You may find a friend forever, a party buddy, a partner in crime or a partner in life!
Since this is a mix and mingle and not a speed dating there is no age range- in a social pool everybody is welcome and you can choose to speak to whoever you fancy.
Connect with like minded people and open your social circle, enjoy chatting about anything and everything, with those you like, for as long as you like
If you find somebody who you think you have a connection with, dare to ask their contact details right then and there... like the old times ;)
Oh! and you don't need to ask the awkward question: 'so are you single?' because they all will be!
You are very welcome to attend alone or with friends. We will be there making introductions, helping break the ice,, and act as a glue in the group.
We have a reserved area/table where we can mix and mingle, so that everybody can relax and feel comfortable and we get to know each other. and then we are going to move on the dance floor!
Simmons Putney is an off-kilter cocktail bar bringing London's Best Happy Hour to the South! This retro-inspired destination spreads across two floors - including an open-plan mezzanine and a cheeky roof terrace - topped off with a dancefloor and disco DJ booth. The ideal spot for any celebration. The party's well and truly here on the Southside.
The program of the night is as follows :
7:00pm-9pm : Singles mixing and mingling
9pm: The music goes up and it is time for dancing.
Everyone arriving before 9pm receives a token for a complimentary drink ( you can choose between beer, prosecco or non alcoholic)
Happy Hour till 9pm!
Dress code is smart/ elegant/ Smart Casual (smart dark jeans are fine but ripped jeans, sportswear, trainers/sportshoes and hats are not allowed).
For security reasons every guest must carry photographic ID with them (Driver’s License, European ID or Passport) independently of the age.
If you wish to be welcomed and introduced to other people by the hostess please arrive before midnight
How to find us: When you arrive please ask to be directed to Marianna's Events area/ Kamal. Any issue on the night feel free to contact Kamal: 07949071232
For general inquires or difficulties with your ticket booking feel free to e-mail us at benetoupromotions@gmail.com or call Marianna on: 07949526733
How to connect with us:
To see all our events please go to:
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- Singles Social & Party @Luxe Piccadilly Circus , Comp. Prosecco! All Ages!Luxe, London
Host: Layla
*This event is a collaboration with other meetup groups and social networks and it will be well attended
*To attend this event you need to buy a ticket from
Single people socialising and partying in the heart of London, while keeping their eyes open trying to spot that special one that will make their heart jump
You are very welcome to attend alone or with friends. We will be there making introductions, helping break the ice,, and act as a glue in the group.
We have a reserved area/table where we can mix and mingle, so that everybody can relax and feel comfortable and we get to know each other, before hitting the dance floor
Whether you are looking for a partner or just to meet and connect with other people who are at the same phase of life, this is the event for you!
You never know who you are going meet in this evening and that is the beauty of it! You may find a friend forever, a party buddy, a partner in crime or a partner in life!
Since this is a mix and mingle and not a speed dating there is no age range- in a social pool everybody is welcome and you can choose to speak to whoever you fancy.
A great opportunity to widen your social circle by connecting with other people who are at the same phase of life.
If you find somebody who you think you have a connection with, dare to ask their contact details right then and there... like the old times ;)
Oh! and you don't need to ask the awkward question: 'so are you single?' because they all will be!
Everyone arriving before 9pm receives a glass of prosecco (non alcoholic option available as well)
Dress code is smart/ elegant/ Smart Casual (smart dark jeans are fine but ripped jeans, sportswear, trainers/sportshoes and hats are not allowed).
Luxe ( formely known as tiger tiger) is one of London’s most amazing, late night party spaces, playing variety of music from commercial to hip-hop to Bollywood.
For security reasons every guest must carry photographic ID with them (Driver’s License, European ID or Passport) independently of the age.Please note we cannot accept any cash payments - and all the tickets need to be bought online If you wish to be welcomed by the host you need to arrive before midnight
Last entry is 1:30am
How to find us: When you arrive please ask to be directed to Marianna's Events area/ Layla. Any issue on the night feel free to contact Layla: 07377544606
For general inquires or difficulties with your ticket booking feel free to e-mail us at benetoupromotions@gmail.com or call Marianna on: 07949526733
The full address of the venue is: Luxe, 29 Haymarket London SW1Y 4SP United Kingdom
How to connect with us:
Like and follow our facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/mariannalandJoin our facebook group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/453202104877514Follow us on twitter:@Mariannasevents
- How To Initiate Interactions With New PeopleStore Street Espresso, London£9.50
T ICKET PRICES
🟢 T HE FIRST 10 TICKETS ARE FREE
🟤 T HE NEXT 5 TICKETS ARE £4.50 ONLY
🔴 REMAINING TICKETS ON THE LINE ARE £9.50 ONLY
🟣 TICKETS AT THE DOOR ARE £15Click this link to buy tickets - eventbrite.com/e/1325076422249
In this workshop Ryan explains why people often have emotions blocking them (usually nervousness) in social situations & how to deal with this to not miss out on opportunities. In the 2nd half he explains how to smoothly start a conversation & make it flow.
🔵 - Understand why people get nervous in social situations or have other emotions blocking them from socialising
🟣 - How to reduce & overcome nervousness or other emotions blocking you from socialising
🟠 - How to start a conversation easily in almost any situation
🟢 - How to use positioning & body language to make starting a conversation much easier
🔵 - How to get a conversation flowing after starting it
⚫ - Brain training exercises designed to increase sharpness at this area of social skills
🔴 - A challenge at the end to bring everything from the workshop togetherRyan has been coaching people social skills full time for over 10 years. As a quiet & shy person he wanted to work on his own social skills & after making huge improvements plus understanding how social situations work & how to improve he developed a process to help others for every area of social skills. He has helped thousands of people over the years to improve & now has a huge following including over 180000 followers on TikTok. More info on Ryan & Social Shortcuts can be found on the website www.socialshortcuts.com
After workshops we spend time hanging out together, a great opportunity to practice the workshop content & make new friends. Plus Ryan is happy to answer any questions you want to ask one to one.
🟢Workshop happening after this:
1. Assertiveness, Setting Boundaries & Resolving Conflicts In Social Situation
Sun, Jul 27, 2025, 5:45 PM in LONDON
Click to buy ticket: eventbrite.com/e/1307462909759In this workshop Ryan explains how to reduce hostility in social situations, then how to set boundaries & defend yourself if necessary while minimising the chances of overreacting or that there is a misunderstanding. Including brain training exercises you can practice to be sharper in this area.
🔵 - How to defend yourself if trying to keep things peaceful isn’t working
🟣 - How to set boundaries in a healthy way
🟠 - Being reasonable so that you’re neither having your boundaries broken but also not overreacting potentially ending up becoming the hostile person
🟢 - How to deal with bullying
🔵 - How to manage emotions related to this area
⚫ - Brain training exercises designed to increase sharpness at this area of social skillsIn person workshops are at 40 Store St. - Store Street Espresso: London.
For any questions feel free to contact Ryan or Gabriel. Please don't contact the other group organisers as they are not involved in running the event & won't be able to provide much help:
✉ Ryan: info@socialshortcuts.com
✉ Gabriel: gabrielsocialshortcuts@gmail.comOTHER EVENTS LINED UP
🟡 Developing Humor And Quick Thinking In Social Situations
🟢 Persuasion Workshop
🟤 How To Manage Emotions Workshop5 minute documentary on our workshops - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rlbCYdeaws
We have a score of 4.9 out 5 on Trustpilot - https://uk.trustpilot.com/review/socialshortcuts.com
Our WhatsApp chat where we discuss social skill, give updates about our events & you can ask questions. https://chat.whatsapp.com/D3StbXpNxUL21T8jPXKI7W
For one to one coaching on social skills and also our free trial session - http://www.socialshortcuts.com
We have over 180000 followers on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts.com
Our video courses - https://social-shortcuts.teachable.com/p/conversation-course
DISCLAIMER
This workshop is intended for educational and or entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat or cure any medical condition.Follow us on the sites below also:
http://www.socialshortcuts.com
http://www.youtube.com/c/socialshortcuts
http://www.facebook.com/socialshortcutsofficial
http://www.Instagram.com/socialshortcuts🟣 Ken Robinson
🟤 Up to a point you welcome being interrupted because it is only by interacting with others you get anything interesting done - Assertiveness, Setting Boundaries & Resolving Conflicts In Social SituationStore Street Espresso, London£9.50
TICKET PRICES
🔴 T HE FIRST 10 TICKETS ARE FREE
🟤 T HE NEXT 5 TICKETS ARE £4.50 ONLY
🟢 REMAINING TICKETS ON THE LINE ARE £9.50 ONLY
🟣 TICKETS AT THE DOOR ARE £15Click this link to buy tickets - eventbrite.com/e/1307462909759
In this workshop Ryan explains how to reduce hostility in social situations, then how to set boundaries & defend yourself if necessary while minimising the chances of overreacting or that there is a misunderstanding. Including brain training exercises you can practice to be sharper in this area.
🔵 - How to defend yourself if trying to keep things peaceful isn’t working
🟣 - How to set boundaries in a healthy way
🟠 - Being reasonable so that you’re neither having your boundaries broken but also not overreacting potentially ending up becoming the hostile person
🟢 - How to deal with bullying
🔵 - How to manage emotions related to this area
⚫ - Brain training exercises designed to increase sharpness at this area of social skillsRyan has been coaching people social skills full time for over 10 years. As a quiet & shy person he wanted to work on his own social skills & after making huge improvements plus understanding how social situations work & how to improve he developed a process to help others for every area of social skills. He has helped thousands of people over the years to improve & now has a huge following including over 180000 followers on TikTok. More info on Ryan & Social Shortcuts can be found on the website www.socialshortcuts.com
After workshops we spend time hanging out together, a great opportunity to practice the workshop content & make new friends. Plus Ryan is happy to answer any questions you want to ask one to one.
🟢Workshop happening after this:
Creating Or Joining A Social Circle Workshop
Sun, Aug 3, 2025, 5:45 PM - in LONDON
Click to get a free ticket: eventbrite.com/e/1325077605789In this workshop Ryan explains how to easily expand, create or join a social circle with the kind of people you want to hang out with plus how to maintain it long term. Ryan also gives some brain training exercises to sharpen your conversation skills to make conversations flow.
🟡 - How social circles function
🟤 - How modern society changes the dynamics of a social circle
⚪ - How to add to your existing social circle if you have one
🔴 - How to build a completely new social circle
🟢 - How to join one that’s already existing
🔴- Ways to make sure you hang out with the types of people you want to
🟣 - How to maintain your social circle over time
🟡 - Brain training exercises designed to increase sharpness at holding & maintaining conversationOTHER EVENTS LINED UP
🟡 How To Initiate Interactions With New
🟢 How To Manage Emotions Workshop
🟤 Developing Humor And Quick Thinking In Social SituationsIn person workshops are at 40 Store St. - Store Street Espresso: London.
For any questions feel free to contact Ryan or Gabriel. Please don't contact the other group organisers as they are not involved in running the event & won't be able to provide much help:
✉ Ryan: info@socialshortcuts.com
✉ Gabriel: gabrielsocialshortcuts@gmail.comOTHER EVENTS LINED UP
🟡 Developing Humor And Quick Thinking In Social Situations
🟢 Persuasion Workshop
🟤 How To Manage Emotions Workshop5 minute documentary on our workshops - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rlbCYdeaws
We have a score of 4.9 out 5 on Trustpilot - https://uk.trustpilot.com/review/socialshortcuts.com
Our WhatsApp chat where we discuss social skill, give updates about our events & you can ask questions. https://chat.whatsapp.com/D3StbXpNxUL21T8jPXKI7W
For one to one coaching on social skills and also our free trial session - http://www.socialshortcuts.com
We have over 180000 followers on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@socialshortcuts.com
Our video courses - https://social-shortcuts.teachable.com/p/conversation-course
DISCLAIMER
This workshop is intended for educational and or entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat or cure any medical condition.Follow us on the sites below also:
http://www.socialshortcuts.com
http://www.youtube.com/c/socialshortcuts
http://www.facebook.com/socialshortcutsofficial
http://www.Instagram.com/socialshortcuts🟣 Albert Ellis
🟤 Being assertive does not mean attacking or ignoring the feelings of others. It means that you are willing to hold up for yourself fairly, without attacking others
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