The Hidden Code of Female Desire: What Freud Tried to Warn Us About

Modern men are told to be kind, supportive, and emotionally available—but for many, these traits seem to backfire in romantic connection. Why? This discussion dives into controversial psychological insights—some dating back to Freud—that challenge everything we’ve been told about female desire, power dynamics, and attraction.

We’ll explore provocative questions:
• Why do some women seem to lose interest in “good guys”?
• Is emotional availability always attractive?
• What role does dominance, unpredictability, and polarity play in long-term attraction?

We’ll touch on suppressed studies, misunderstood theories, and uncomfortable truths about the tension between modern values and primal instincts. This isn’t about resentment or manipulation—it’s about clarity, self-awareness, and understanding the deeper layers of human connection.
If you’re ready to question the script and have a bold, open conversation with other thoughtful men, join us.

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Join us every Wednesday at 6:00 PM for our weekly Men's Group meeting! This is an opportunity to connect with like-minded men and engage in conversations about topics that are important to us.

During the first hour of the meeting, we'll break into small groups to check-in with each other. This is a chance to share what's been going on in your life and get support from your fellow group members. We believe in creating a safe and supportive environment where everyone can feel comfortable sharing.

For the second half of the meeting, we'll have a topic of discussion that focuses on masculinity, success, relationships, dating, health, finance and what it takes to be an integrated man in todays world. We encourage all members to participate and share their thoughts and experiences.

If it's your first time attending, don't worry! Just introduce yourself and tell us a bit about yourself and what brings you to the group.

We have a few guidelines to ensure that everyone has a positive experience. Please silence your phone to respect others during check-ins or when someone is presenting. Additionally, we ask that you order food or drink from the club to compensate for our use of the space.

Feel free to come early and socialize before the meeting. Most weeks, a few guys are there by 5:30. We usually meet in the south side, but depending on circumstances, we may be in a different part of the club.

We look forward to seeing you there and building a supportive community of men!