Finding Friends (for PDX Mid-Lifers)

Let's kick up our heels and join this other MeetUp group at the Boring Barn in Boring, Ore.

Note: They do all kinds of music, including but not limited to country.
Boots admired, not required (I've seen as many pairs of yoga pants as I have western boots - LOL!)

I plan to attend most Thursdays and hope to make it by 5, depending on traffic. (They offer the same schedule on Wednesdays but my Wed. evenings are booked). If I know you're coming on a given Thurs. I'll look for you; if you get there and see me 1st, don't be shy about saying hi! FYI: I may not reliably receive msgs. sent via MeetUp the day of.

LOW-KEY & LOW-PRESSURE
The instructor is friendly and personable
Turnout ranges from 1-2 to 20'ish people

COME EVEN IF YOU'VE NEVER LINE DANCED BEFORE
No experience necessary for the beginner lessons at 5PM and progresses through the evening to more advance dancing. All levels welcome

WHEN THE WEATHER'S NICE
We dance on the wooden floor outside =)

DETAILS
5-6PM BEGINNER LESSONS
6-7PM INTERMEDIATE LESSONS
$5 (free for 1st time attendees)

Join me at the following local event:

$20 at Black Cat Tarot & Tea Cellar
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NOTE: There is a charge for this event* -- register with and pay the venue directly
It's great if you say you're coming here on MeetUp -- if you do, I'll watch for you! ... but it's much more important to register with Black Cat Tarot & Tea Cellar directly. You'll pay them directly, and receive the specific venue address and directions with your confirmation.

If dating apps and typical singles events aren’t your thing, then check this out!
NOT A MIXER OR BAR SCENE
NO WORKING THE ROOM
NO TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHO TO APPROACH
...OR WAITING TO BE APPROACHED

Instead:

• a low-key, coordinated event
• with an easy, calm pace
• involving structured 1:1 and small-group conversations
• in the great outdoors
• for interesting people like you
• in the same stage of life
• who are open to meeting new peeps
• and curious what could happen when conversation really works

JUST IMAGINE...
Fresh air, new faces, a leisurely stroll, and soulful discussions in a beautiful wooded park!

Come! Together we'll walk, talk, and connect — One step at a time!
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7 THINGS TO KNOW:

1. We go RAIN or SHINE
2. Plan on a Full 2.5 HOURS
3. This is NOT a HIKE or JUST a WALK, but several structured activities
4. This is NOT A DATING EVENT or pick up scene; it's a Single's Mingle for those 40– to 60-something
5. We're intentionally inclusive and DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS about gender, identity, orientation, or readiness (i.e., Single-&-Dating or Single-But-Not-Looking-Right-Now)
6. Messages sent the day of may not be seen until after the event
7. There's now a nominal fee for these events; see notes below *💲*

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ALL THE JUICY DETAILS FOR THOSE WHO WANT THEM

• WHY
  You’re seeking friendship, a mindful approach to dating, or good company
• WHO
  Those in their 40s–60s looking for genuine connection & thoughtful convos
• WHERE
  Mary S. Young Park's 2nd parking lot (near restrooms & dog run)
• WHAT
  1 continuous loop back to the parking lot packed with easy, interactive, facilitated activities
• WHEN
  2PM sharp (arrive early to park and use the restroom)

WHAT IT’S NOT

• ❌ Not another hike club, or just a stroll in a park
• ❌ Not a workout -- we’ve selected a flat trail and will keep a very chill pace
• ❌ Not about steps, miles, cardio, or fitness goals, it is about connection
• ❌ Not an awkward singles mixer, but several different engaging activities!
• ❌ Not a pickup scene -- some will be Single-&-Looking, others not!

WHAT TO EXPECT

• ✅ A structured, gently guided experience, starting and ending with easy, whole-group activities that assure everyone is seen and heard
• ✅ Walk the trail in small, rotating groups, talking to as many people as possible
• ✅ Optional conversation prompts help drive conversation deep

DO YOU…
Enjoy deep, thought-provoking conversation? Are you looking for others who enjoy the same, be they potential new friends or a possible partner?

YOU'RE WELCOME IF YOU'RE...

• Open, curious, and kind
• Straight, gay, bi, cis, trans (all identities welcome)
• Good with light structure and interested in practicing being fully present with others
• Seeking real connection -- be it platonic or romantic, friendship or love
• Interested in going deep, beyond small talk or typical “tell me about yourself” Qs

🔔 IMPORTANT NOTES

• We’ll meet you in the 2nd (larger) parking lot wearing neon vests
• We leave on time – if more than a few mins. late, you’ll miss us!
• We'll walk 1 full loop back to the parking lot – no dropping out midway
• All identities welcome; hurtful and harmful behavior is not – stay open and kind
• Others may be there for different reasons –(dating, friendship, good conversation...)– respect and maturity are expected of all
• MeetUp messages sent the day-of may not reach us – plan ahead!
• No: pick up tactics, weird vibes, soliciting, or children

🩷 WHY WE DO THIS
This isn’t just about finding your person or posse – it's an opportunity to open up and live with intention. When we show up authentically, and are willing to be vulnerable, we open ourselves up to real magic!

You may or may not find a potential date or your next bestie at any particular event...

But you will have the opportunity to enjoy a lil’ socializing and solid conversation with the natural beauty of the PNW as our shared backdrop!