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What we’re about

In this workshop you will learn essential skills from Relational Life Therapy (RLT)—the radically effective approach to relationships created by internationally-recognized therapist and bestselling author, Terry Real. The RLT Bootcamp is known for its ability to spark profound, lasting change in individuals and their relationships, quickly.
Open to individuals and couples of any relationship status or sexual orientation who aren't sure if they can continue in the relationship, want to understand their contribution to the relationship dynamic to make it better, want to be a better partner.

Through interactive presentations and discussion, participants will uncover and address ineffective relationship patterns, learn how to quickly identify and stop these patterns in the moment, and replace old habits with practical, relationally skillful strategies.

Participants will leave the weekend with knowledge and practiced tools that foster positive interactions, connection, and harmony in their relationships.

As one participant said, “This class will make you a better friend, family member, and lover.”

What to Expect:

10-25 people in a comfortable, classroom-like setting

Beautiful surroundings in Mill Valley to explore and recharge

Two days, Saturday and Sunday, 9-5

Opportunities to engage with facilitators and other participants, to practice and process what’s being taught

Encouragement to “pass” on anything a participant feels they are not ready for or comfortable with; all levels of participation are welcome, there is no required sharing

Why Invest in this Bootcamp?

Unlike traditional therapy, this Relationship Bootcamp provides an environment that enables participants to learn in two days what would otherwise take months, saving time and money.

This workshop is educational, not therapy, allowing participants to share as much or as little as they choose while still gaining skills and knowledge to address painful relationship dynamics.

The opportunity to hear and learn from others.

The trainers have extensive training in RLT, and are certified by The Relational Life Institute to provide this Bootcamp.

Learning takes place in an environment where the intensity is managed, meaning learning occurs more easily (as demonstrated by neuroscience!).

Your Relationship is Worth the Investment.

What you’ll Leave With:

Specific awareness of your, and your partner’s if you’re in a relationship, underlying, outdated operating system is

Understanding of the root causes of the repeating conflicts that cause disharmony in your relationship

Knowledge of how to work with your brain to make changes more easily

Confidence that you can navigate through disharmony, repair, and reestablish harmony.