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What we’re about

Sore? Stressed? Full of knots? This group is for men who enjoy massage, both giving and receiving, and want to connect with other like-minded men to exchange safe, intimate, and nurturing touch in a quiet, respectful place. No experience is necessary. You must be willing to engage with others, learn by doing, and be respectful.

This is a closed group. The following membership criteria must be met:

  • Male (cisgender), at least 18 years old
  • Able to stand, squat, climb stairs, straddle, and be straddled as necessary to perform and receive massages
  • Weight/height proportional
  • Openness to nudity and full body contact (massage exchange is not about sex)

Reasonable accommodations will be made for disabilities - please advise the organizer and be able to suggest alternatives.
All orientations welcome: straight/bi/gay/nonbinary, etc. Massage exchange is about sharing energy + providing nurture and comfort in a safe way.
Protocols:

  • Bring your energy and enthusiasm
  • Be clean/freshly showered and appropriately groomed
  • Late arrivals are disruptive - arrive on time - update Acceptance if plans change!
  • Be patient with yourself and others - we are amateurs trying to learn and improve
  • Do NOT attend with unhealed cuts or open sores, lice, crabs, skin rashes, or STDs.

No drugs of any kind are allowed
Do not touch anyone in places not wanted
Do not ask anyone to do anything that person is not comfortable with