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Intimacy is the sense of deep connection and closeness we can share with others, built through vulnerability, trust, and mutual understanding. It’s not limited to romantic or physical relationships—emotional, intellectual, creative, and even spiritual intimacy all offer ways for people to feel truly seen and valued. Intimacy can deepen bonds, but it also exposes us to risk, requiring courage to open ourselves and patience to nurture trust.

1. What does intimacy mean to you, and how has that definition evolved over time?
2. Do you think emotional intimacy can exist without physical intimacy? Why or why not?
3. How does vulnerability contribute to intimacy, and where does it become uncomfortable?
4. Can intimacy be built quickly, or does it require long-term shared experiences?
5. What role does trust play in sustaining intimacy, and how is it rebuilt if broken?
6. How does cultural background influence how we express or value intimacy?
7. Can too much intimacy ever feel overwhelming or suffocating?
8. What’s the difference between intimacy and dependency?
9. In what ways can friendships be more intimate than romantic relationships?
10. How do boundaries protect intimacy rather than diminish it?
11. How do life transitions (moving, career changes, parenthood) affect the level and form of intimacy in relationships?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

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Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.

Join our discord: https://discord.gg/sXmd8MRvmr

Anxiety is a natural human response to uncertainty, stress, or perceived threat. In small doses, it can be motivating—helping us prepare, focus, or avoid danger. But when it lingers or grows disproportionate to the situation, anxiety can feel paralyzing, clouding judgment and straining relationships. It often lives in the tension between control and uncertainty, and while it can be painful, exploring it together can reveal how people manage fear, find resilience, and seek calm.

1. How do you personally define anxiety, and what do you see as the difference between healthy (useful) anxiety and harmful (paralyzing) anxiety?
2. In what situations has anxiety been helpful for you, rather than harmful?
3. How do you typically recognize that you are feeling anxious—through thoughts, behaviors, or physical sensations?
4. What role does uncertainty play in creating or worsening anxiety?
5. Do you think anxiety is more about the future, the present, or the past? Why?
6. How does anxiety affect your relationships with others?
7. In your experience, what strategies or practices have helped reduce anxiety?
8. How do cultural or family expectations shape how people express or hide their anxiety?
9. Can sharing your anxiety with someone else make it lighter—or sometimes heavier?
10. How do boundaries (with people, work, or commitments) help manage anxiety?
11. What can anxiety teach us about what we value most deeply?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

- - - - -
Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.

Join our discord: https://discord.gg/sXmd8MRvmr

Join us as we explore themes that touch on our lives, relationships, and personal growth. Our discussions invite you to reflect on personal experiences, share insights, and engage in meaningful conversations about what drives us, how we connect with others, and how we navigate life’s complexities. These events are designed to foster connection, self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of the human experience.

• What are some pivotal moments that have significantly influenced your life?
• How do you approach making decisions in your everyday life?
• What recent lesson have you learned that others might find valuable?
• How do you stay motivated when faced with challenges?
• What do you value most in your interactions with others?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

- - - - -
Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.

Join our discord: https://discord.gg/sXmd8MRvmr

Join us as we explore themes that touch on our lives, relationships, and personal growth. Our discussions invite you to reflect on personal experiences, share insights, and engage in meaningful conversations about what drives us, how we connect with others, and how we navigate life’s complexities. These events are designed to foster connection, self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of the human experience.

• What are some pivotal moments that have significantly influenced your life?
• How do you approach making decisions in your everyday life?
• What recent lesson have you learned that others might find valuable?
• How do you stay motivated when faced with challenges?
• What do you value most in your interactions with others?

These are just some of the questions we will discuss during our meetup. No preparation needed, just bring yourself and a willingness to listen and share your thoughts.

The meetup will be structured in a way to promote small group discussion so everyone has a chance to listen, be heard, and really dive into the discussion.

- - - - -
Due to the increased group size, we're making a few changes to how our discussions will be structured.

We'll arrange tables of 6 participants each, without a moderator. When you arrive, please gather at the front near the escalator. Once enough people are assembled, I'll escort each group of 6 to their table to begin the discussion, and continue doing this as more participants arrive.

Each table will receive a sheet containing the topic description and discussion questions. Feel free to take a photo or refer to the event page to have your own copy handy.

The official event time is from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm, but some of us stay longer, transitioning into informal conversations beyond the topic. You're welcome to join any other ongoing discussions once your initial group wraps up and members start leaving.

Please do not go directly to a table upon arrival; instead, wait at the front area by the escalator. This approach will help us manage seating smoothly and ensure everyone enjoys an organized and engaging discussion experience.