Stop Relationship Self-Sabotage: What’s Really Driving It

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Stop Relationship Self-Sabotage: What’s Really Driving It
A webinar with speaker Aurore Prefumo
If you’re thoughtful, self-aware, and have already invested in personal growth—but you still find yourself repeating the same painful relationship dynamics—this webinar is for you.
You might notice patterns like:

• feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable people (or becoming emotionally unavailable yourself)
• conflict escalating quickly, or turning into shutdown and silence
• swinging between feeling “too much” and feeling disconnected
• wanting closeness, then pulling away when it arrives
• staying strong for everyone else while struggling to soften or receive support

This isn’t about blame or “doing relationships wrong.” Often, these loops are learned protective strategies—automatic responses shaped by past experiences, stress, and what your system has come to expect in connection.
In this grounded, reflective session, Aurore Prefumo will explore:

• why insight and willpower alone don’t always change relationship behavior
• how the nervous system and subconscious patterns can influence attraction, attachment, and choice
• why familiar dynamics repeat even when you “know better”
• what can shift when emotional safety begins to rebuild from the inside out

This is an educational, self-reflective webinar, not therapy, and it isn’t a substitute for mental health care. There’s no pressure to share personal details—participation is always optional.

### What you can take away

By the end, you may leave with:

• clearer language for the patterns that tend to derail your relationships
• more steadiness and self-trust when emotions run high
• a better understanding of what “emotional safety” feels like in your body
• greater clarity about the kind of relationship dynamic that truly fits you

You don’t need to be in a relationship to attend—just willing to look at your patterns with honesty and kindness.