About us
Welcome to the NJ Career & Life Decision Lab. Nothing has to be wrong for you to be here. You can like your job and feel decent about where life is taking you, and still wonder what else is out there. That question is enough. We don't know it all. But we have the tools, the insights, and each other, to work through it together. This community exists to do three things: build support, provide tools, and share perspectives. During a time of big transitions, the thing people need most is permission to feel normal. Alone, that's isolating. Together, it's normalizing. We can't wait to meet you.
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The Cost to Break Free from the Comparison Trap
·OnlineOnlineYou don't have to be indecisive to fall into the comparison trap. One text message was enough to make her question a decision she'd already made. This week's Lab: why comparing your path to everyone else's derails good decisions, and two small experiments to catch it before it does.
We'll cover:
- Why comparing your milestones to everyone else's feels safe, even when it's what's keeping you stuck
- Why gratitude journaling and meditation haven't fixed the doubt, and what actually does
- Two small experiments to test a decision this week, without fully committing to it
Who shows up here:
- You made a decision. Then one text, one LinkedIn post, one dinner conversation made you second-guess it.
- You've tried the whole self-development playbook. None of it explains why the doubt keeps coming back.
- You know your path isn't supposed to look like anyone else's. You're still comparing it to theirs.
About the Lab:
NJ Career & Life Decision Lab is a free, ongoing group for people working through a career or life decision that's bigger than a to-do list. New topic most weeks, same small group, no pitch when you show up.Hosted by Gloria Julien. Career & Life Decision coach, ICF Associate Certified Coach, and a former mechanical engineer who's made a career leap like this twice herself.
Curious what deciding actually looks like, not just thinking about it? Your Life Unbounded podcast digs into this every week: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube.
4 attendees
Stop Chasing What You're "Supposed" to Want
·OnlineOnlineYou're either fully locked in or asleep. Rest doesn't compute anymore. When it shows up, it comes with anxiety and a story that you're failing. That pressure isn't really about time. It's about expectations you never chose, but absorbed anyway, until they started feeling like your own. This week's Lab: whose life purpose you're actually living, and how to tell.
We'll cover:
- Why the pressure you feel isn't about time, and where it's actually coming from
- How to tell if a goal is yours or one you inherited without noticing
- A simple test, choose, iterate practice for deciding for yourself. Every time, not just once
Who shows up here:
- You're checking every box and still asking why none of it feels like relief
- Rest feels foreign. When you stop, the anxiety gets there before the rest does
- You've caught yourself procrastinating on "the thing" and wondered if that's actually information
About the Lab:
NJ Career & Life Decision Lab is a free, ongoing group for people working through a career or life decision that's bigger than a to-do list. New topic most weeks, same small group, no pitch when you show up.Hosted by Gloria Julien. Career & Life Decision coach, ICF Associate Certified Coach, and a former mechanical engineer who's made a career leap like this twice herself.
Curious what deciding actually looks like, not just thinking about it? Your Life Unbounded podcast digs into this every week: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube.
2 attendees
