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What we’re about

Please note : This is a support and normalization group, not a place to look for your next date / your unicorn. Relationships may occur between group members but it is not the primary goal of this group.

This is a group for people involved in polyamory, open relationships, kink and BDSM, swinging, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy, regardless of sexual orientation. 
I want to amplify our "Safe Space" policy. Our Safe Space is about respect, right to privacy, enthusiastic consent, the inclusion of LGBTQIA, BDSM, all gender expressions, body types, races, national origins, ages, religions, neuro-typical and non-neuro-typical, relationship status, and relationship styles.

By respect, we mean that we believe in the tenets of Non-Violent Communication.

By right to privacy, we mean that you are not allowed to photograph or discuss anyone or any experience with outside entities, especially other social situations, without that person's explicit consent.

By consent, we mean that no one will intrude upon another by touching their person or property without explicit verbal consent, or by sending messages soliciting dates or invitations to outside activities. If you want to meet people in this group, you have to come out and meet them.

By age, we mean that our membership is open to all persons of legal age or accompanied by a legal guardian.

By relationship status, we mean single, partnered, or married are all welcome.

By relationship styles, we mean all varieties of ethical non-monogamy, such as Solo Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, Swinging, but we also welcome people who are ethically monogamous or ethically questioning. If you aren't sure if your situation is ethical, please check with group leadership for advice.

Additionally, as part of our Safe Space, organizers and hosts are willing to meet you at the front door of our venue if you would like an escort to come in and find the group.

Your leadership team at gatherings and via message to take immediate action to ensure the Safe Space. We work together as a team to ensure that our policies and practices are aligned and to vet members to go to private residences.