North NJ New BDSM exploration

This group is a place for new, novice or curious submissives or doms interested in exploring the lifestyle and looking to learn more and connect with like minded friends and enthusiasts, and explore their own sexuality experience with those who have similar interests.
A group for those intrigued or interested in the BDSM lifestyle to experience as they like in the company of likeminded adults, and for those interested in alternative passions.

PARTICIPATION GUIDELINES(subject to revision without notice:

• Affirmative consent is required for any and all acts. Asking and acceptance required for participation. If you have an established relationship with someone, follow whatever your established preferences are.
• Do not interrupt or intrude without permission to do so.
• No open drug or substance use. Please control your level of intoxication if you choose to drink.
• "Red" and "Yellow" are recognized safewords. Red means stop play and check in. Yellow means slow down, go lighter, or do something different. With new play partners it’s good to check in verbally after a yellow to confirm that you understand what they need.
• Clearly communicate your level of experience, ability, and any risks that come with play that you engage in beforehand.
• Respectful and consensual behavior absolutely required.
• No racism, sexism, classism, misogyny, misgendering, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, or kink-shaming.  Be aware that words and actions can have different context for people of different backgrounds—think about the language you’re using and have a conversation if you’re unsure.
• To ensure that we have a safe and respectful space, we request that guests refrain from culturally appropriative attire. Tacky, or otherwise insensitive dress or adornment is disapproved of. If you are unsure if something is allowed, reach out and ask us beforehand or just don't wear it. Alternatively, feel free to come naked, wrapped in plastic—that will always be welcome.
• No fire play, excessive glitter, paint to keep meetups clean.
• Aggressive cruising or objectifying behavior  not permitted. Treat others as new friends, and let play follow and flow. Look for cues of interest and don’t rapidly approach and make propositions one after another.
• This group is a private community. You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. While we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community.
• By willingly participating in North NJ New BDSM exploration group within any agreed upon meetup interactions through this Group communication as agreed upon between yourself and others persons within consensual parameters-you release the Group Organizer and Meetup, its owners and affiliates from any and all liability.
• This Group is for Adults able to act like adults and make adult decisions.