What we're about

If you live in Northern NJ and joined Meetup to interact with others in your area that share similar interests in polyamory, ethical non-monogamy or other alternative relationship structures, you may know that most of the groups are located in NYC. We love the Big Apple, but the tolls, traffic, parking and hustle and bustle can be overwhelming and expensive.

My wife Barbara and I want our members to have the opportunity to meet in local places without the need to travel into NYC.

While our NYC friends are more than welcome to join us, our meetups will mostly occur in venues such as parks, pubs, restaurants, museums, zoos, and other locations in NJ.

Our goal is to simply allow members to meet others with similar interests, with the hopes that some connect and are able to establish friendships and/or new relationships.

** Community Rules of Conduct: **

Discrimination of any kind against any member is strictly prohibited.

Respectful behavior and clean language are required.

Commercial, religious, non-NNJ Poly events and/or sexual solicitations are prohibited. Do not post your evening availability on a given date. We are not Crigslist or Backpage.

Admins will moderate discussions and comments, and any posts that violate our Rules of Conduct will be removed and the member will receive a warning. A second violation in the calendar year will result in the member being permanently banned from the group.

The above rules pertain both to online activity as well as at events hosted by NNJ Poly.

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Easy afternoon hike at Pyramid Mountain

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Past events (6)

August 30th Berkeley Heights Meet & Greet

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