About us
Welcome to Little Gay Book's New York & Worldwide Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Meetup Group!
We're so glad you're here. This is a welcoming community for LGBTQ+ singles who want to meet new people, build genuine connections, and have fun along the way. Join our Meetup group to stay connected, never miss an event, and be the first to hear about new opportunities to meet other queer singles in New York and beyond.
Our events are intentional, inclusive, and designed to make meaningful conversations happen. Whether you're looking for friendship, dating, or a long-term relationship, we create spaces where LGBTQ+ people can connect in a relaxed, authentic environment.
Since 2009, Little Gay Book has helped thousands of LGBTQ+ singles find meaningful connections and lasting relationships. We know there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating, which is why we offer a continuum of services that meet you wherever you are in your journey. Whether you're looking to meet new people through events, improve your dating confidence, get expert support navigating dating apps, or work with a professional matchmaker, we're here to support you.
Online Speed Dating
Meet from the comfort of home through Zoom. After a brief welcome, you'll rotate through a series of private five-minute conversations in breakout rooms. The following day, you'll receive the contact information for your mutual matches.
In-Person Speed Dating
Hosted at welcoming local gathering spots, our in-person events begin with a casual mingle before moving into structured mini-dates. It's a relaxed, low-pressure way to meet multiple people in one evening.
Personalized Matchmaking
Our experienced matchmakers take the time to truly get to know you before personally introducing you to thoughtfully selected, highly compatible singles. Every match is made by people, not algorithms.
Dating Coaching
Build confidence, improve communication, overcome dating challenges, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships with one-on-one coaching tailored to your goals.
Queer Love Decoded
Our signature multi-week program blends coaching, education, and real-world practice in a supportive small group. You'll gain practical dating skills, deepen self-awareness, and connect with other queer singles who are committed to personal growth.
Enhanced Dating App Management
Take the stress out of online dating with concierge-style support. We'll optimize your profile, refine your messaging, develop a personalized strategy, and help you approach dating apps with greater intention and confidence.
Frankly Speaking
Members of this Meetup group receive priority access to Frankly Speaking, our live monthly Q&A with Dr. Frankie Bashan.
Bring the questions you don't know who to ask. Whether it's dating, sex, relationships, family, coming out, or navigating life in the LGBTQ+ community, no topic is off limits. There are no canned answers or generic advice. We look at your unique situation, identify your patterns, and figure out what's really going on. Come get in the room. Learn more.
Join this Meetup group to stay informed about upcoming events, new programs, special gatherings, and opportunities to connect throughout the year.
Whether you're looking for your next great date, a long-term relationship, or simply a way to connect with more LGBTQ+ people in your community, we'd love to have you join us.
We look forward to meeting you soon!
Upcoming events
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- Network event$15.00
Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline136 attendees from 23 groupsFun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.
Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.
This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
At Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.
⏰ Event Timing for Tu B'Av: Jewish Valentine's Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
Join us on July 30 from 5-7pm PT / 8-10pm ET
Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT / 7:30 PM ET
Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT / 7:55 PM ET
Event begins: 5:00 PM PT / 8:00 PM ET sharpWe encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.
Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer+ Singles?
A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.Q: How does the matching work?
A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.Q: Who can attend this Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating Event?
A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.Q: How do I secure my spot?
A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!
💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
6 attendees from this group - Network event$15.00
East Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
Location not specified yet5 attendees from 12 groupsFun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.
Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles.
This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
At East Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.
⏰ Event Timing for East Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
Join us on Thursday, August 6 from 6:00 PM ET to 8:00 PM ET
Check-in opens: 5:30 PM ET
Check-in closes: 5:55 PM ET
Event begins: 6:00 PM ET sharpWe encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.
Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans & Queer+ Singles?
A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.Q: How does the matching work?
A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.Q: Who can attend this Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating Event?
A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.Q: How do I secure my spot?
A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!💕
💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
1 attendee from this group - Network event$15.00
East Coast Career Minded Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline12 attendees from 12 groupsFun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.
Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles.
This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.
🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
At East Coast Butch seeking Femme Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.
⏰ Event Timing for East Coast Career Minded Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
Join us on Thursday, August 13 from 6:00 PM ET to 8:00 PM ET
Check-in opens: 5:30 PM ET
Check-in closes: 5:55 PM ET
Event begins: 6:00 PM ET sharpWe encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.
Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans & Queer+ Singles?
A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.Q: How does the matching work?
A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.Q: Who can attend this Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating Event?
A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.Q: How do I secure my spot?
A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!
💕 PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.
By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.
1 attendee from this group - Network event
Frankly Speaking: Live with Dr. Frankie Bashan
·OnlineOnline25 attendees from 25 groupsBring your questions and join Dr. Frankie for honest conversations about dating, relationships, intimacy, communication, and more.
What Have You Always Wanted to Ask?
What if you had a space where no dating or relationship question felt too small, too complicated, or too awkward to ask?Frankly Speaking is a 60-minute virtual conversation with Dr. Frankie Bashan, licensed clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, and founder of Little Gay Book. Each session explores the real questions LGBTQ+ singles are asking right now about dating, relationships, intimacy, communication, and connection.
This is not generic dating advice. It’s a space for honest conversation, fresh perspectives, and the questions that rarely get asked out loud.
What You'll Experience
You'll join a live 60-minute virtual session where Dr. Frankie shares expert insights, answers questions, and helps participants better understand the challenges and opportunities of dating as an LGBTQ+ person.Event Details
- Virtual Event
- Duration: 60 Minutes
- Time: 5:30 - 6:30PM PT / 8:30 - 9:30PM ET
- Host: Dr. Frankie Bashan
- Open to LGBTQ+ singles seeking deeper connection, personal growth, and relationship education
Looking to Meet Other LGBTQ+ Singles?
Frankly Speaking brings together LGBTQ+ singles who are looking to learn, grow, and build meaningful relationships.You'll have the opportunity to connect with others who are exploring many of the same questions and experiences. Join thoughtful conversations, hear different perspectives, and become part of a welcoming community where meaningful connections can naturally grow.
The first month is $99. $149 a month after that. Three-month minimum commitment.
If you have been carrying questions you cannot ask anyone else -- this is where you bring them.
Registration Required: Join Frankly Speaking
Please note that RSVPing on Meetup does not register you for Frankly Speaking. Meetup is used to help our community discover events and stay connected, but your official registration must be completed through the link below.We can’t wait to have you join us!
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