NYC BIPOC Ethically Non-Monogamous Community

We are a New York City based, but also international, community of people who identify as ethically non monogamous, polyamorous, or open in their relationship style. This is a secure space for Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (this includes Asians and Pacific Islanders, btw) to gather and talk about their poly/enm experiences. We are open to all gender expressions, sexual identities, and sexual orientations.

We believe our dating lives cannot be separated from the rest of our identity. We center creating a safe space to talk about the intersection of race, class, gender and all other parts of ourselves with our dating lives. We are also here to laugh, cry, and share our mundane struggles in the dating world with each other. What makes us unique is that we use our lived experience to help each other grow, lift each other up, and gently call each other in.

While our focus is on our dating lives, as a community we will not tolerate any racism, fetishization, anti immigrant hate, paternalism, saviorism, or any other language or actions that harm or silence people of color. If you don't agree that this fits in a dating group then this is not the group for you. This is a space to share our stories, our culture, and our love.