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Speed Dating Events for Lesbian/Bi/Trans Singles and Poly, Kinky, and Queer People of all types

💞 If you’re frustrated with dating apps and are looking to meet real people in real-time, then speed dating events with Litte Gay Book are for you!

Whether you meet up with us at one of our In-Person events or join us in our Zoom Room for one of our online events we get you face-to-face with like-minded individuals for real conversations, real connections, and real 2nd dates.

Everyone who attends is looking to connect, and there’s the potential for lots of fun, great conversations, date and friend matches. Come check one out!

Lesbian/Bi/Trans Speed Dating events are open to all lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks. They are a trans-welcoming space, and intolerance will not be permitted. No cis-men, please.

Our Poly, Kinky, and Queer events are open to people of all genders and all sexualities.

How Speed Dating works:

You’ll need a smartphone to share what type of matches you’re interested in and for leaving your feedback. Our simple smartphone technology allows us to tailor the event to the age and “type” of person you’d like to meet. You tell us where your preferred date lies on the masculine-feminine spectrum, along with their age range. The algorithm determines the best matches possible, allowing for a more tailored experience than random, public speed dating.

For Online Speed Dating you’ll meet your matches in intimate break-out rooms, so you’ll need a separate device with the Zoom app. In-Person events are hosted at our favorite neighborhood bars and restaurants.

After getting to know each other during five-minute rounds you’ll use our matching technology to privately share whether you think they’re second date material, a new friend, or a business connection. The next day you’ll receive the contact info of anyone you matched with.

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    Philadelphia Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

    Philadelphia Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Speed Dating

    Franky Bradley's, 1320 Chancellor St, Philadelphia, PA 19107, Philadelphia, PA, US
    9 attendees from 4 groups

    Join our Philadelphia Speed Dating event and meet Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles for authentic conversation and fun connections!

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to a speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Join us on Wednesday, April 22 from 7 pm to 9 pm ET.

    Schedule:
    Check-in begins at 6:30 PM ET
    Please join no later than 6:55 PM ET
    The event will start promptly at 7:00 PM ET
    (late arrivals will not be permitted to participate in speed dating).

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Venue:
    Franky Bradley's
    1320 Chancellor St, Philadelphia, PA 19107

    🌟 Why You Can't Miss It
    Imagine an evening where meeting incredible people is effortless and exhilarating. Our Personalized Speed Dating event uses cutting-edge technology to match you with potential connections. Say goodbye to the ordinary and hello to the extraordinary!

    What Awaits You:

    • A dynamic event filled with laughter, smiles, and captivating conversations.
    • Smartphone magic that tailors each match to your preferences, so you can focus on the fun.
    • The thrill continues after the event - you'll receive contact info for your promising matches, ensuring meaningful connections!

    🥂 Two drink minimum required

    Don't miss this extraordinary opportunity to forge connections with the vibrant queer community who share your passions. Act quickly before the remaining spots disappear.

    👇 FAQ:
    Q: How does the matching technology work?
    A: Our innovative technology, created by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking success, allows you to tailor your event experience. You share your preferences, including age range and where your preferred date falls on the masculine-feminine spectrum. Our algorithm pairs you with compatible individuals, creating a more personalized and intentional experience than traditional public speed dating.

    Q: How can I connect with my matches after the event?
    A: After the event, you'll receive the contact information for your matches, allowing you to take those promising connections to the next level.

    Q: What should I do after the event ends?
    A: We encourage you to stay after the event, mingle, and support the venue. It's a chance for great conversations, new friendships, and connections that go beyond the event. Your continued presence can make the experience even more memorable.

    Q: Are there any specific guidelines for attendees?
    A: Yes, our Lesbian, Bi, Trans and Queer+ Speed Dating events are open to lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks. These events are trans-welcoming, and intolerance is not permitted.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Need Assistance?
    đź“§ Email: events@littlegaybook.com
    📞 Phone: 510-254-9105

    By registering, you consent to SMS updates (reply STOP to opt-out).
    All sales are final. No refunds.
    Spots are limited. Reserve your ticket now for the lowest price!

    đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by purchasing a ticket on Eventbrite.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

    đź’• Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

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    Online
    Online
    39 attendees from 23 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ⏰ Event Timing for 40s & 50s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on April 23rd from 5:00 to 7:00 PM PT
    Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT
    Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT
    Event begins: 5:00 PM PT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!đź’•

    đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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    1 attendee from this group
  • Network event
    $15.00
    30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating

    ·
    Online
    Online
    34 attendees from 23 groups

    Fun, easy, intentional. Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Singles. Real conversations, genuine connections, all from home.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to an online speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    This virtual event combines real-time video interactions with algorithm-driven matching technology, making every connection intentional, personalized, and meaningful.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    At 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating, you’ll enjoy:
    ♥ Private 5-minute dates in Zoom Breakout Rooms.
    ♥ Algorithm-driven smart matches powered by Dr. Frankie’s 20+ years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience.
    ♥ Group mingling between dates to keep the energy high and meet even more people.

    Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a fun evening with great company, this online speed dating event is your chance to connect with like-minded folks in a safe, structured environment.

    ⏰ Event Timing for 30s & 40s Lesbian, Bi, Trans & Queer+ Online Speed Dating:
    Join us on April 29th from 5:00 to 7:00PM PT
    Check-in opens: 4:30 PM PT
    Check-in closes: 4:55 PM PT
    Event begins: 5:00 PM PT sharp

    We encourage arriving early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches. Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Ticket prices increase as the event date approaches.
    Buy your ticket now to lock in the lowest price and guarantee your spot. Join us for fun, easy, intentional online speed dating that actually works. Your next connection is just a click away. Buy now before prices go up!

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Frequently Asked Questions
    Q: Why Choose Our Online Speed Dating for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer Singles?
    A: In a world dominated by passive scrolling and endless texting, we make online LGBTQ+ dating intentional again. Meet real people, have real conversations, and build authentic connections. Our events are designed to maximize compatibility, engagement, and second-date potential.

    Q: How does the matching work?
    A: Our speed dating software considers your preferences on age range and where your ideal match falls on the masculine–feminine spectrum, to pair you with individuals most compatible with you. Unlike random pairings or app-based swiping, our algorithm makes dating intentional and personalized. By pairing you based on real preferences and compatibility, the result is more engaging conversations, better connections, and a higher likelihood of second dates.

    Q: How do I follow up with my matches?
    A: After the event, you’ll receive contact details for your matches so you can keep the conversation going.

    Q: Who can attend this Lesbian/Bi/Trans/Queer Speed Dating Event?
    A: Our events are open to Lesbian, Bisexual, Nonbinary, and Gender Queer folks. These events are proudly trans-welcoming, and intolerance is never permitted.

    Q: How do I secure my spot?
    A: Tickets are limited and prices increase as the event date approaches. Buy now to lock in the lowest price!

    Q: Where can I find more LGBTQ events?
    Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking the link above to purchase a ticket. Following your ticket purchase, you will receive an email from Eventbrite with your Zoom link to attend the event. See you there!đź’•

    đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meet Up Group.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

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  • Network event
    $15.00
    NYC Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer Speed Dating & After Party with Dr. Frankie

    NYC Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer Speed Dating & After Party with Dr. Frankie

    Tara Rose, 384 3rd Ave, new york, NY, US
    5 attendees from 3 groups

    Come for Speed Dating, stay for the VIP After Party, and meet Dr. Frankie, the LGB team, and other Special Guests.

    Tired of endless swiping and ghosting? Craving real conversations and genuine connections? Little Gay Book, the nation’s leading LGBTQ+ matchmaking agency, invites you to a speed dating event specifically designed just for Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Timing for NYC Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Speed Dating & After Party with Dr. Frankie:
    Join us on Tuesday, May 5 from 7 pm to 10 pm ET.
    Check in for Speed Dating: 6:30–7:00 pm ET
    Speed Dating: 7:00–8:30pm ET
    After Party with Dr. Frankie: 8:00–10:00pm ET
    We encourage you to arrive early to ensure your technology is working and you don't miss your matches.
    Please note: late arrivals will not be able to participate.

    Venue:
    Tara Rose
    384 3rd Ave, New York, NY 10016

    At NYC Lesbian, Bi, Trans, Queer+ Speed Dating & VIP After Party with Dr. Frankie, you'll enjoy:
    • A lively, well-hosted LBTQ+ speed dating event filled with laughter, flirting, and engaging one-on-one conversations
    • Up to ten five-minute dates with real singles serious about connecting
    • Smart, algorithm-driven matches powered by Dr. Frankie, with over 20 years of experience as a trusted LGBTQ+ matchmaker and relationship expert
    • Contact information for your matches after the event, making it easy to continue conversations and build real connections
    ✨ Dr. Frankie IRL. After your dating rounds, hang out, sip something fabulous, and mingle with Dr. Frankie and the LGB team. This is your chance to connect with the heart and mind behind the matchmaking magic.

    🥂 Two drink minimum required. Non-alcoholic options available.

    Don't miss this extraordinary opportunity to forge connections with the vibrant queer community who share your passions. Act quickly before the remaining spots disappear.

    FAQ:
    Q: How does the matching technology work?
    A: Our matching system was developed by Dr. Frankie after nearly 20 years of LGBTQ+ matchmaking experience. Before the event, you share your preferences on age range and where your ideal date falls on the masculine-to-feminine spectrum. Our system then prioritizes speed dates with people who align with those preferences, creating a more intentional experience than traditional speed dating. While the technology improves compatibility, it does not guarantee every match will be your ideal type.

    Q: Who is this event for?
    A: Our Lesbian, Bi, Trans, and Queer Speed Dating events are designed for lesbian, bisexual, nonbinary, and genderqueer folks who want to connect, flirt, and see where things go. This event is not for gay/cis men. Looking for our GBTQ+ events? Click here.

    These events are proudly trans-welcoming. Kindness is required, respect is non-negotiable, and intolerance of any kind is a no-go. We ask everyone to honor names, pronouns, and identities so all attendees can feel comfortable being themselves. Anyone unable to do so may be asked to leave.

    This is a 21+ event, with adults of all ages encouraged to join. Come with an open mind, a good attitude, and maybe a little spark. We’ll handle the rest.

    Q: What happens during the speed dating event?
    A: You will have up to ten one-on-one conversations that last five minutes. After each date, you privately note whether you would like to connect again. The system then identifies mutual matches after the event.

    Q: What happens after speed dating ends?
    A: That’s when the VIP After Party with Dr. Frankie kicks off! Keep the energy going, reconnect with promising matches, and make new ones in a more relaxed, open setting with Dr. Frankie and VIP Special Guests.

    🎟 TICKETS ARE REQUIRED FOR THIS EVENT: Pay for them by clicking HERE.

    Need Assistance?
    đź“§ Email: events@littlegaybook.com
    📞 Phone: 510-254-9105

    By registering, you consent to SMS updates (reply STOP to opt-out).
    All sales are final. No refunds.
    Spots are limited.

    đź’• PS - The number of RSVPs on Meet Up does NOT indicate the number of people attending the event. We promote our events on many channels, not just this Meetup Group.

    RSVP'ing for this event on Meetup will NOT reserve a spot for you at this event. You will need to register by clicking here to purchase a ticket on Eventbrite.

    By RSVPing to this event, you consent to being added to the Little Gay Book email list. This allows us to send you important updates about this event and future communications about related events and services. We take your privacy seriously and will handle your information with care in accordance with our privacy policy. You are free to unsubscribe at any time.

    đź’• Visit our website to view our upcoming speed dating events:
    https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-event-lbtq/

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