About us
We're based right here in Portland, Oregon, where the coffee's strong, the vibes are even stronger, and the Pacific Northwest charm makes every meetup feel cozy and authentic. Whether it's a quiet bookstore crawl in Southeast or a sunset hike at Forest Park, we keep things rooted in the local scene so you can connect with people who really know and love this city just like you do.
Between events, members stay in touch through our private messaging board, where you can chat about past meetups, share life updates, or even plan low key coffee hangouts with someone you hit it off with. It’s not about constant notifications or social media drama it’s a simple, respectful space to keep the connection going at your own pace.
What makes Obsidian Bloom Solitude Strand different is that we’re not here for games or surface level small talk. We carefully design each activity to spark real conversation, whether it’s a collaborative cooking class, a guided forest meditation, or a poetry night by the Willamette. We screen members to make sure everyone’s truly looking for something meaningful, so you can show up as yourself and meet others who are doing the same.
Our events usually run about two to three hours long enough to really get to know people, but not so long that it feels draining. We balance structure and free time so conversations can flow naturally, and we always end with a warm group check in so no one’s left wondering if they made a connection.
If you’re tired of swiping, ready to meet genuine people, and actually want to build something real with someone who shares your values, this is your space. You don’t have to be loud, perfect, or always put together just open hearted and sincere. Join us and see how slow, intentional connection can feel truly special in a world that’s always rushing.
Upcoming events
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Glasgow Online Speed Dating for Introverts
147 Baldwin Ave, Glasgow, GB✨ First Time? No Problem – Online Speed Dating Made Welcoming & Fun!
⚠️ IMPORTANT: Your RSVP Does NOT Guarantee a Spot!
To secure your place, you must register and complete the personality quiz by clicking one of the age group links below. Select your age range, click to register, and complete the quiz. Spots are limited – don't wait!
📋 Choose Your Age Range Below to Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🌈 Looking for genuine connections? This event was made for you! We've helped thousands of first-timers discover the joy of speed dating from home. Short, fun conversations with compatible singles – it's easier than you think and more rewarding than any dating app.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
- Anyone nervous about traditional dating scenes
- Anyone looking for a fun, structured way to meet new people
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group – Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Join the Zoom Event – Log in from home and meet your host. We'll handle the rest!
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Glasgow singles.
- See Who Liked You Back – Mutual matches sent to your inbox. Your next chapter begins!
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: At home where you feel safe and relaxed – no crowded venues
- Host: Warm, professional host dedicated to making everyone comfortable
- Vibe: Positive energy, real talk, and authentic connections with Glasgow locals
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
- Icebreakers: Fun prompts provided to keep conversations flowing
- Duration: About 60–90 minutes of structured, fun conversations
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.---
✨ Thousands of first-timers have found their match with us. You could be next! 💖 ✨1 attendee
Edinburgh Online Speed Dating for Introverts
31 Curtis Ave, Glasgow, GB💓 First Timer Friendly Speed Dating – Connect Online, Feel at Home!
🔴 IMPORTANT NOTICE: RSVP ≠ Guaranteed Entry!
You must register via your age group link below AND complete the personality quiz. This is required to participate. Limited spots – register immediately to avoid missing out!
📋 Choose Your Age Range Below to Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🙌 Never tried speed dating before? You're in the right place! We've helped thousands of first-timers discover the joy of speed dating from home. Short, fun conversations with compatible singles – it's easier than you think and more rewarding than any dating app.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- Singles who appreciate a guided, hosted dating experience
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
Event Details
- Format: Online via Zoom – comfortable, low-pressure from anywhere
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Warm, professional host dedicated to making everyone comfortable
- Vibe: Relaxed conversations with friendly Edinburgh singles from the comfort of home
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group – Find your age range above and click to register.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Start Chatting – Short, timed conversations with compatible Edinburgh singles. No awkward silences!
- Your Results – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
💡 Insider tip: Test your Zoom setup 10 minutes early so you feel calm and ready.
⭐ "The personality quiz really works. My matches were spot on!" – Happy first-timer
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.What if I don't match with anyone?
That's okay! Many people attend multiple events before finding their match. Each event is a new opportunity.Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.---
✨ Great connections start with a single conversation. Yours could start tonight! 💗 ✨1 attendee
Dundee Online Speed Dating for Introverts
VVXG+89 Chryston, Glasgow, GB🥰 Comfortable Online Speed Dating – Built for Newcomers & First Timers!
🚨 DON'T MISS THIS: RSVP Does Not Equal Entry!
To guarantee your spot, click the link for your age group below, register, and take the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – secure your place today!
🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🏠 Prefer to meet people from home first? Same here! Online speed dating is perfect for first-timers. Meet like-minded local singles from the comfort of your own home – no pressure, no crowded venues, just genuine connections in a safe, welcoming environment.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone who believes great chemistry starts with great conversation
- Curious first-timers wanting to explore speed dating
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group – Find your age range above and click to register.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Enjoy the Conversations – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun.
- See Who Liked You Back – Mutual matches sent to your inbox. Your next chapter begins!
Event Details
- Format: Zoom video event – interactive, personal, and welcoming
- Location: At home where you feel safe and relaxed – no crowded venues
- Host: Seasoned speed dating host with a talent for putting first-timers at ease
- Vibe: A feel-good evening of laughter and connection with Dundee first-timers
⭐ "Way better than any dating app. Real conversations with real people. Loved it!" – Dundee attendee
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don't match with anyone?
That's okay! Many people attend multiple events before finding their match. Each event is a new opportunity.What if I'm shy or introverted?
You're in the right place! The online format and guided conversations make it easy and comfortable for everyone.Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.---
✨ Life's too short for bad dates. Try a great one – from home! 🫶 ✨1 attendee
Aberdeen Online Speed Dating for Introverts
6 Carse View Dr, Glasgow, GB✨ Virtual Speed Dating – Ideal for First Timers – Meet Aberdeen Singles Tonight!
🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly – act now to secure yours!
⬇️ Select Your Age Range & Complete Registration:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🤝 Tired of swiping with no results? Try real conversations instead! This isn't your typical dating event. It's a curated, online experience where first-timers meet compatible Aberdeen singles in a low-key, guided environment. No pressure – just possibilities.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-timers who want a safe space to practice dating skills
- Anyone anxious about crowded bars or in-person meetups
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
- Singles who prefer a safe, comfortable online environment
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
⭐ "I almost didn't sign up because I was scared. So glad I did – best decision ever!" – First-time speed dater
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom – convenient, intimate & perfect for first-timers
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Charismatic host who keeps the energy positive and the nerves low
- Vibe: Low-pressure connections with welcoming Aberdeen singles – fun and easy
How It Works
- Sign Up – Click the registration link for your age bracket above.
- Complete the Personality Quiz – We'll match you with compatible Aberdeen singles for the best experience.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Enjoy the Conversations – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun.
- Get Your Matches – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection!
💡 Note: You don't have to be perfect. Authenticity is the most attractive quality.
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.---
✨ Connect from your comfort zone with friendly Aberdeen first-timers – no pressure, just possibilities! ❤️🔥 ✨1 attendee