What we’re about
Playful gatherings for curious, open-minded individuals who want to connect beyond small talk, dating apps, and traditional labels.
At The Nest, you can expect cozy venues, light connection games and a welcoming vibe where you’re free to show up as yourself - whether single, partnered, monogamous, ENM or simply, wonderfully “hard to label”.
These events are not singles nights or dating events per se. They are spaces for authentic conversations, new friendships, sparks, and stories to unfold. Dating is welcomed but not suggested. Hosted by Valentine Blue (founder of OddBird), aka "The Solo Sex Coach", certified sex coach, sexologist and pleasure advocate.
Upcoming events
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The Nest - A playful connection event for curious solos
Santos, Location tbc closer to date, Lisbon, PTDitch boring holiday parties. Come to the Nest – Xmas Edition!
This December 16, the Nest returns to Possible World (Santos, Lisbon) for a cozy evening where playful connection replaces awkward small talk and predictable holiday chatter. Bring your curiosity, your quirks, your sparkle, and leave glowing with connections that actually match your freak. Because damn, this Xmas, you are the gift!
Whether you’re single, partnered, monogamous, ENM, kinky, or wonderfully hard to label… this night is for independent spirits with diverse interests who rarely find a space to truly belong. Here, you do. This is your Nest.
### What to expect:
🪶 2-4-1 oysters and sparkling wine between 19:00–20:00
🪶 A playful holiday-themed icebreaker hosted by intimacy coach Valentine Blue
🪶 Light connection games to keep the conversation flowing
🪶 One signature welcome drink included with your ticket
🪶 Curated festive cocktails, mocktails + small bites
🪶 Friendly, flirty, joyful energy - no boring holiday small talk allowed
Tuesdays are no longer random: they’re for new friendships, sparks, and festive stories worth remembering.
Spots are limited to keep it intimate.
Tickets available on Eventbrite.
Find more about OddBird on Instagram @oddbirdbyblue 🐦1 attendee
Past events
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