What causes rejection in a relationship?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wL-UOhZrc40

A long one (18 minutes), but I think worth it. You might want to take notes.

Can you give examples of unease or discomfort when dating someone? Is that really a "gut" feeling? What triggered it?

What should we look for when trying to find some compatible?

How compatible are our world views?

Is your rigidities aligned with theirs?

Are values important when the relationship will be short?

What are some warning signs, including too much time speaking, speaking negatively too often, and exhibiting lack of emotional control?

To find out if you're compatible with a person, how do you balance curiosity, and being an interrogator?