Orlando Stoics

This is our IN-PERSON Stoic discussion and reading (no Zoom link available). We meet every 2 weeks on Saturdays.

READING

Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius was the last famous Stoic philosopher of the ancient world. The Meditations, his personal journal, survives to this day as one of the most loved self-help and spiritual classics of all time. In How to Think Like a Roman Emperor, cognitive psychotherapist Donald Robertson weaves the life and philosophy of Marcus Aurelius together seamlessly to provide a compelling modern-day guide to the Stoic wisdom followed by countless individuals throughout the centuries as a path to achieving greater fulfillment and emotional resilience.

How to Think Like a Roman Emperor takes readers on a transformative journey along with Marcus, following his progress from a young noble at the court of Hadrian―taken under the wing of some of the finest philosophers of his day―through to his reign as emperor of Rome at the height of its power. Robertson shows how Marcus used philosophical doctrines and therapeutic practices to build emotional resilience and endure tremendous adversity, and guides readers through applying the same methods to their own lives.

Combining remarkable stories from Marcus’s life with insights from modern psychology and the enduring wisdom of his philosophy, How to Think Like a Roman Emperor puts a human face on Stoicism and offers a timeless and essential guide to handling the ethical and psychological challenges we face today.

Book Club Format

Every Sunday, a new lecture. We begin at 9:00 AM with an informal conversation, followed by a focused dialogue at 9:15 AM and an open Q&A afterward.

This week, we will explore the Fermi Paradox, the profound question: If the universe is so vast and statistically likely to contain intelligent life, why have we not observed clear evidence of extraterrestrial civilizations?
We begin with the scientific framework behind the paradox.

The discussion opens with the Drake Equation, which attempts to estimate the number of detectable intelligent civilizations in the Milky Way galaxy. The equation considers factors such as star formation rates, the number of planets capable of supporting life, the likelihood of life developing intelligence, and the lifespan of civilizations capable of communication. Early estimates suggested the possibility of anywhere from dozens to millions of technologically communicative civilizations. Yet despite these probabilities, humanity has encountered what is often called the Great Silence, the absence of confirmed extraterrestrial contact or observable signals.

The Drake Equation matters because it forces us to confront the gap between statistical expectation and observational reality. It raises fundamental questions about life, intelligence, technological development, and the longevity of civilizations.

We then examine possible explanations for the Great Silence.

Some theories suggest extraterrestrial civilizations may intentionally remain undetected. Hypotheses include advanced civilizations avoiding cultural interference, communicating through methods or wavelengths humans cannot yet detect, or adhering to ethical frameworks similar to a “Prime Directive” of non-interference. Other possibilities include the Dark Forest Theory, which proposes that civilizations remain hidden to avoid existential threats from unknown competitors. Additional proposals include the Zoo Hypothesis, quarantine scenarios, simulation possibilities, or speculative interpretations involving unidentified aerial phenomena.

These theories matter because they expand the discussion beyond technological capability into ethical, sociological, and philosophical considerations regarding contact between civilizations.
Next, we explore the concept of the Great Filter.

The Great Filter proposes that one or more extremely difficult stages must be passed for intelligent civilizations to survive and expand. These filters could occur early, such as biological or planetary conditions necessary for complex life, or later, such as self-destruction through warfare, environmental collapse, or technological risk. The theory invites reflection on humanity’s own developmental stage and whether cooperation, sustainability, and technological responsibility are necessary for long-term survival.

The Great Filter matters because it reframes the paradox as a potential warning. Understanding these barriers could shape how humanity approaches global risk, planetary stewardship, and future space exploration.

Finally, we consider more speculative possibilities regarding the nature of advanced civilizations.

Highly advanced extraterrestrial intelligence may exist in forms that are difficult for humans to recognize or comprehend. These possibilities include alternative biochemistries, non-carbon-based life, or life using different solvents such as methane or ammonia. Some hypotheses suggest that advanced civilizations may transition into digital, post-biological, or energy-based forms. Others speculate about civilizations operating in higher dimensions or physical realities beyond current human detection.

These ideas matter because they challenge human assumptions about intelligence, consciousness, and the potential evolutionary trajectories of advanced technological societies.

Taken together, the Drake Equation, the Great Silence, the Great Filter, and speculative models of advanced civilizations form a multidisciplinary inquiry spanning astrophysics, biology, philosophy, and futurism. The real challenge is not simply determining whether extraterrestrial intelligence exists, but understanding what its existence reveals about life, survival, and intelligence itself.

Participants are encouraged to review the following resources in preparation for discussion:

Most people come to Stoicism for the Dichotomy of Control: the idea that some things are up to us, and everything else isn't.

It’s often sold as a "life hack" for instant calm. But what happens when you can’t control your anger? What happens when you can’t just "will" yourself to be happy?

Does that mean Stoicism is failing you, or are you missing the true depth of the practice?

For our next session, we will be diving into Michael Tremblay’s insightful critique: "What Many People Misunderstand about the Stoic Dichotomy of Control."

About This Gathering
​ Our live conversation will center on:

• Why the word "control" might actually be a bad translation.
• If something is “up to me,” why can’t I just change it immediately?
• Where does personal responsibility end and unrealistic self-pressure begin?
• What happens when we replace control with cause?

Whether you’re new to Stoicism or have been practicing for years, this conversation will challenge the common “life hack” version of the philosophy and invite something more honest.