Why Gaslighting still works on you?! | Zoom

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Priming Theme --> Why Gaslighting still works on you?!

The secret is transmitted as structure
A family does not merely conceal information. It creates a zone where experience cannot acquire a shared symbolic form.
The child receives:

• affect without explanation
• contradiction without narrative
• rules without reasons
• fear without an object
• shame without an acknowledged event
• roles without a history

So the child does not primarily inherit the secret as content.

> They inherit its organization.

That is the transgenerational mechanism.

### Adulthood supplies the stage

The adult does not necessarily reproduce the original event.
They reproduce its relational geometry:

> someone knows / someone cannot know
> someone speaks / someone must stay silent
> someone acts / someone carries the consequence
> someone judges / someone becomes guilty
> someone defines reality / someone doubts perception

That is where repetition compulsion becomes concrete:

> The event does not repeat literally.
> The structure recruits new actors.

Partner, boss, therapist, child, group, institution—they become new occupants of old positions.

Tentative Agenda:
7:00pm Social, Setup, check-ins, announcements.
7:30pm Brief review, theme exploration
9:15pm summaries, finish up formal session
9:30pm staggered after-parties
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