What we’re about
We're so sorry for your loss. We know how much it hurts 😢
Losing a beloved pet is never easy 🌈
💛Are you feeling lost and overwhelmed by grief, with no one to talk to who truly understands?
💛Do you wonder how to cope with the deep sadness and confusion that come with losing a companion who was so much more than just a pet?
💛Would you like to connect with others who've walked this painful journey, people who truly get it - without any judgment?
If this is you, know that this Pet Loss Support Group is here for you.
We understand the depth of your pain because we've been there too.
Losing a pet, your loyal companion and a cherished member of your family is one of the most heartbreaking experiences you’ll ever face in life. But in this journey of grief, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Our supportive and understanding Pet Loss Support Group is a safe space for healing.
We understand how deeply losing a beloved pet can impact your heart and life.
Grieving a pet is real and just as painful as losing a human loved one, even if the world doesn't always recognize it. We do.
Your precious companion has guided you here for a reason.
How The Pet Loss Support Group Works
Our FREE weekly online meetups are lovingly created to support you through the heartbreak of losing a beloved pet.
Each session offers a safe, compassionate, and judgment-free space where you can share, listen, or simply be in the comforting presence of others who truly understand.
You’ll connect with like-minded pet parents who, like you, are on this painful journey too.
What to Expect on Your First Meetup
We understand how hard it is to take that first step when you’re grieving the loss of a beloved pet. That’s why we want you to know exactly what to expect when you join us:
💛A Warm Welcome: From the moment you join the group, your meetup host will greet you with kindness and understanding.
💛A Caring Community: You’ll meet fellow pet parents who truly understand what you’re going through. We’ve all experienced the pain of losing a cherished companion, and you’ll never feel alone here.
💛A Safe Space to Heal: Whether you’re ready to share your feelings or simply want to listen, this is a judgment-free, compassionate space where you can express yourself at your own pace.
💛Stories of Connection: Hear from others about their pet loss. You’re also welcome to share memories, stories, or photos of your beloved pet when you feel ready.
💛Unconditional Support: Cry, laugh, share photos, reminisce, or simply sit quietly among others who understand. There’s no “right” way to grieve here - only support for whatever you need at the moment.
💛Resource Library: After your first meetup, you’ll get lifetime access to our resource library. It’s filled with helpful tools and suggestions to guide you through your pet loss journey. This library grows with input from our members, so you’re welcome to suggest resources that may help others navigate their grief too.
RSVP Request:
To ensure a supportive and intimate environment where everyone has the opportunity to share, we limit each session to 8 participants.
If you're unable to attend, please kindly update your RSVP so that another grieving pet parent can join.
Thank you for your understanding and consideration 💛
What Our Grieving Pet Parents Say About This Group
✨"After my grief counselling finished, I decided to look for further support on MeetUp. What I've found in this group is a small community of people who are prepared to listen and share. I feel this group and its members have helped me carry on with the healing process. There is the opportunity to share my story with people who are on a similar journey - a group of people who can provide a sympathetic and empathetic ear. I've found healing not just in being in a safe space to share and express my grief, but being able to hear other people's stories as well. The kindness and companionship of people who "get it" is invaluable." David lost his beloved Greyhound, Jen, in September 2012
✨"This group has been the single most important thing I’ve done that has helped me deal with the loss of Bear. The group is brilliant and has been a lifesaver for me. The group has helped me come to terms with Bear's passing and given me comfort and support when I was at my absolute lowest point. In the early stages of my grief, it was very reassuring to know that this group was there for me. Also knowing that there were people who understood what I was going through was a massive help. Feeling I had a space to express my feelings without being judged was also extremely important. Now I feel much better than I thought I ever would or could after Bear passed. You'll be very glad you joined. Just hearing other people's stories and knowing you're not alone is so very helpful." Rich lost his cat, Bear, in August 2024
✨"Words cannot express my gratitude for this wonderful group and I’m truly grateful I found it. It's so supportive, helpful, kind and compassionate. Sharing with and listening to like-minded people who really understand is so helpful. It’s helping me navigate this difficult time and it means more than you'll ever know. When I lost my cat, Lucy, I was heartbroken. I searched the internet for support but I couldn't find anything appropriate until I found this Pet Loss Support Group. Thank God I did. It has really helped me through the last 7 weeks. I needed to be in the company of people who understood. I needed empathy and compassion and kindness and I get all that. It's a beautiful safe, supportive space to share how you're feeling and what's happening for you at whatever stage of your pet grief you're at. We're all grieving together and support each other with the utmost respect and compassion. If you're hesitating about joining us, please don't. We would love to hear all about your pet. You are not alone. We are all on this journey together." Fiona lost her cat, Lucy, in January 2025
✨"Being a part of this group has really helped me by hearing we are not alone in this journey and being among like-minded pet parents. I joined the group because I wanted to be part of a group where I could listen to others and be around people who could relate to what had happened. Honestly, every session I have attended has been beneficial. Sharing photos of our beloved pets is always very special. For anyone thinking of joining the group, try to be brave. The group really has lovely members and is a safe space". Dave lost his dog, Prince, in November 2021
✨"Before joining the group, I felt sad and guilty. Now I feel less sad and guilty. Listening to other people’s experiences has also normalised my own experience. It was also helpful to share thoughts and beliefs about the afterlife with others. I would advise anyone thinking of joining the group to take the brave step and join, even if it is only to listen. Thank you for continuing to host these groups, they really are valuable and of much help." Lucia lost her cat, Tobia, in October 2024
✨"Before joining this lovely group, I felt utterly broken and thought I was never going to cope; now I feel empowered to mend those pieces. I struggled when I lost Bryndis and realised there was nothing out there to share the grief with until I came upon this group. I just wanted to talk to people who 'get it'. This group has enabled me to deal with my grief; pet grief is so disenfranchised and lots of people simply do not understand it. I found it comforting to be in an accepting environment where my grief was 'ok'. I find conversations around guilt very helpful and just the constant reminder to be kind to yourself is so valuable! It's such a lovely group. It's a space to share your grief, memories, laugh and cry together. If you need support and are thinking of joining the group, I'd say, go for it! Please join us! This is such a diverse group of people united by grief, and the tolerance and acceptance are outstanding." Stefanie lost her cat, Bryndis, in December 2024
✨"This group has been exceptionally friendly and supportive. It's definitely good to know that there are very loving and caring people out there who are willing to reach out to others to run a group like this. I lost my beloved cat of 17 years. She was the first pet I could call my own and it's the first time I've ever had to make the decision to let a pet go. In the last several years I have lost other people in my life and bereavement support has been beneficial for this. The loss of Phoebe was very significant for me, so I needed some support for my grief. I wanted to share the experience I had with Phoebe both in her life and also after her passing, and also hear the experiences of others. If you're thinking of joining the group, you'll absolutely be heard and given a space to say how you feel." Edward lost his cat, Phoebe, in December 2024
✨"I was very down but Sonia was there to help pull me back up and for that, I am very grateful. She was there right when I needed her most. Not once but twice. It’s always nice to hear encouragement when you are down and still mourning over your loved ones. If you're thinking about joining the group but feel unsure or hesitant, I’d encourage you to take the leap. This group offers a supportive community where you can connect with others who share similar experiences and interests in pet care. Whether you’re looking for advice, guidance, or simply to be part of a network of like-minded individuals, you'll find a wealth of knowledge and understanding here. Don’t let uncertainty hold you back, the group is welcoming, and there’s no better time than now to get involved and start learning from others and sharing your insights." Liz lost her dog, Brownie, in April 2024
✨"I was going through a very rough time and the group really helped me release some of the pain I had inside and feel understood. I recommend joining the group. It was helpful and a warm space that felt safe to talk about what our pets and their loss meant to us. Just give it a try, you don't need to talk right away if you don't feel like it, you can just listen and share your own story if and when you feel like it. Sonia is very caring and respectful.” Melissa lost her cat, Pelino, in November 2018
✨"Thank you!! After a day I still feel it was actually helpful, thank you for initiating and creating a welcoming atmosphere. Thank you again for organising the group and the meditation, I really enjoyed doing a little mental journey." Rebecca lost her cat, Poff, in November 2024
✨"Thank you. It was comforting to meet all of you. Thank you for having me. I will be thinking of you and the group and the kindness you all showed me when I was in one of my darkest days." Shilpi lost her dog, Skippy, in August 2024
✨"It was really nice talking to you yesterday. I felt I poured a lot out which was much needed, and thank you for attaching the resources. I have already taken a look at one of them, and will continue to, as time goes by." Bev lost her dog, Alfie, in March 2024
✨“I’m so grateful I got to talk about it. I feel very much better now.” Androvich lost Champion, his German Shepherd, in July 2023
Why This Group Was Created
In February 2023, my heart was shattered when we lost Tilly, our 13-year-old Yorkie. Tilly was my baby, my angel, and the love of my life. She taught me the meaning of love - how to receive love and how to give love. She was the bravest girl I ever knew 🐶
When Tilly passed, I felt so alone and unsure how to navigate my grief. I felt like people (especially non-pet parents) just didn't understand my pain and what I was going through.
I didn't want anyone else to feel like this so I decided to turn my pain into purpose. With this isolating feeling and sadness in my heart, I decided to create this group to support others. My mission is to reach as many people as possible with compassion and understanding so that no one goes through the pain of losing a pet alone.
We hope that one day you'll feel stronger and be able to look back on the beautiful life you shared with your adored animal companion, but one step at a time. There's no timeline for grief and no right or wrong way to grieve.
So, come join us, bring pictures of your beloved pet, tell stories, and grieve with people who understand what you’re going through and can help support you.
Remember that you ARE NOT ALONE. Join us, make new friends, and be supported on your pet loss journey 🐶🐈
We hope to meet you soon, and in the meantime, please be kind to yourself 🙏🏼
Donations are always welcome and truly appreciated! Our meetups are free but donations are needed to continue providing emotional support for those grieving the loss of a pet. Your generous donation will help us to continue providing a safe space where grieving pet parents can find comfort, hope, and healing. If you'd like to donate, you can do so via the Pet Loss Support Group website. Thank you so much!
Disclaimer: This group is created as a safe space for you to share your feelings about your pet loss journey. This is not therapy. I’m not a trained counsellor, therapist, or psychologist. I’m just like you - a grieving pet parent. If you require professional support please contact your GP or another trusted health professional.
With love,
Sonia 💛