What we’re about
Polyamory can be a very rewarding lifestyle, but the complexity of the culture, ethics, and terminology can be a little intimidating and overwhelming. Not only are you presented with terms like kitchen table poly, metamour, and compersion, but then the greater poly community has its own set of rules that aren't always easy to understand, but are vital to happy and successful poly relationships.
The focus of Poly 101 is to have fun with like-minded people and introduce the poly-curious to the lifestyle. We try to help you to avoid common mistakes that could result in getting hurt, being taken advantage of, or inadvertently hurting someone else.
Poly 101 holds monthly discussion groups where you can have fun with other poly and poly-curious people, ask questions, and get advice. As we grow, we'll add social events and workshops
A few important notes:
Poly 101 is a group dedicated to helping members learn more about polyamory. The comfort, privacy, and piece of mind of our members is very important to the success of the group and its members, and we have created the following rules to help ensure this is a safe space for all:
For your privacy, the group is private.
Please do not send messages to members you haven't met in person. Anyone found to be messaging members and asking them out or acting in any other unwelcome manner will be removed from the group.
Poly 101 is not a group about sex, it's a group dedicated to relationships. While sex is a part of many relationships, sex will not be the focus or our meetups.
We expect Poly 101 members to treat each other with respect at all times, and shaming of any kind will not be tolerated.
This is s safe place to make poly mistakes. We don't expect our members to know all the rules and tenets of poly culture, nor do we expect you to agree with them all. However, we expect members to learn as they attend meetings, especially if they intend to pursue polyamory as a lifestyle.
If you're attached and your partner doesn't know you're coming to a Poly 101 event, we would discourage you from attending. If you have questions about how to approach your partner, please feel free to message me and I would be happy to talk to you about your situation.