Polyamorous Gathering Long Beach

We attract a wide range of people who identify as polyamorous. We are a queer centered group of individuals who prioritize fair access, relationship accountability, and emotional responsibility. If you are curious about polyamory and you're looking to build community, this is a great opportunity to meet like-minded people, many of whom are available for advice, support and just plain fun.
We are inclusive of communities of color, disabled, and LGBTQIA+ persons. We welcome you, solo or with your loved ones, and look forward to seeing the familiar faces that build this loving community.
Polyamorous Gathering Long Beach (PGLB) has a clear set of House Agreements. We aim for radical honesty by spelling out our expectations and clearly defining the values of this community:
*House Agreements*
*L*earn – PGLB is for learning about polyamory and what that looks like for each of us. It is *not* a "play" space. No nudity, kink or sex play is permitted or expected at any event.
*O*pen communication – PGLB aims to create BRAVER spaces where you can exercise open communication with intention, foster interactive dialogue, facilitate trust, develop your listening skills, and give and receive support.
*V*erbal Consent – We encourage everyone to obtain verbal consent and explicit negotiations (as modeled at Cuddle Parties) before initiating physical contact (e.g. hugging). No photography, video or recording of any kind is allowed without prior verbal consent of all parties involved.
*E*xpectations – check them at the door! Interest in polyamory does *not*signal sexual/dating availability or indicate sexual orientation.
*R*espectful behavior toward hosts and members is required. Emotional maturity is paramount; if something is going on between members of the group, we expect that they will respect each other and leave the drama at the door. If anyone is experiencing abusive or harassing behavior, please see a host for help.
*B*raver Space – PGLB aims to create BRAVER spaces for all members to engage in dialogue and feel respected. We understand that for some folx, creating a truly safe space is impossible. However, creating spaces for authenticity and the ability to speak up when safety is questioned is our top priority. Please let your host know how this space can be even better to support you on your unique journey.
If there’s a problem or complaint, we will remind the individual(s) about these House Agreements, issue a warning about behavior, or ask them to leave. We take feedback very seriously and will ban folx, if necessary.
We welcome your feedback and suggestions to improve our events. We also invite you to help us educate newcomers if they do not seem aware of these expectations. By working together, we can all help keep our polyam community feeling respectful and safer.
Each event host aims to welcome members to events. If you're new to an event and you see a host before they see you, feel free to say "hi" and introduce yourself!