What we’re about
I started Portland Slow And Steady Romance because I noticed so many singles here in Portland were tired of the endless dating apps and superficial first dates that went nowhere. I wanted to create a space where people who are genuinely looking for something real could meet in a relaxed, pressure free environment. Too many folks want meaningful connections but don’t know where to find them outside of swiping left or right, so I thought why not build a community around slowing down, enjoying shared experiences, and letting romance grow naturally?
Our events are all about connection through doing, not just talking. Instead of awkward speed dating or forced icebreakers, we plan fun, low key activities like picnic potlucks in the park, brewery tours, beginner pottery nights, or scenic hikes with time to chat afterward. The focus is on shared experiences that spark real conversation and comfort, so you’re not sitting across from someone thinking of the next thing to say you’re already laughing over a lopsided clay bowl you made together or comparing notes on your favorite trail views.
No experience needed none at all. Whether you’re new to dating, returning to the scene after a long break, or just prefer a more intentional pace, you’ll fit right in. We welcome everyone from total introverts to social butterflies, as long as you’re open hearted and looking for a genuine relationship. This isn’t about being the most outgoing person in the room; it’s about showing up as yourself and giving connections time to grow.
If you’re ready to step away from the dating grind and meet people in a way that feels natural, kind, and actually fun, then this is your group. We’re all about quality over quantity, and real moments over rushed ones. Come join us and see what can happen when you slow down, enjoy the moment, and let love find its own steady rhythm.
Upcoming events
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Portland Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 20-35
5704 SE Flora Dr, Portland, OR, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 20-35.
Did you know 72% of singles say they’d rather meet someone in person — but just don’t know how? We’re changing that. 🍷
Join Portland’s most refreshing way to connect: a speed dating event designed for real conversation, spontaneous laughter, and zero pressure. No awkward small talk. Just short, meaningful chats with local singles in a relaxed, curated setting. You’ll be gently guided through each round — so you can stay present and open.
Before the event, complete a quick personality survey to help us craft comfortable, compatible pairings. It’s easygoing, app-free, and perfect for first-timers (most guests have never done this before!).
✅ Meet like-minded locals
✅ Skip the swiping fatigue
✅ Enjoy authentic, real-time sparks
✅ Walk in curious, leave inspiredSpots are limited — secure yours before it’s gone.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come as you are. Leave open to what’s possible.
1 attendee
Portland Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 33-48
10505 SE 23rd Ave, Portland, OR, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 33-48.
Did you know 72% of singles say they’d rather meet someone in person — but just don’t know how? We’re changing that. 🍷
Join Portland’s most refreshing way to connect: a speed dating event designed for real conversation, spontaneous laughter, and zero pressure. No awkward small talk. Just short, meaningful chats with local singles in a relaxed, curated setting. You’ll be gently guided through each round — so you can stay present and open.
Before the event, complete a quick personality survey to help us craft comfortable, compatible pairings. It’s easygoing, app-free, and perfect for first-timers (most guests have never done this before!).
✅ Meet like-minded locals
✅ Skip the swiping fatigue
✅ Enjoy authentic, real-time sparks
✅ Walk in curious, leave inspiredSpots are limited — secure yours before it’s gone.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come as you are. Leave open to what’s possible.
1 attendee
Portland Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 45-58
SE Flavel & 57th, Portland, OR, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 45-58.
Did you know 72% of singles say they’d rather meet someone in person — but just don’t know how? We’re changing that. 🍷
Join Portland’s most refreshing way to connect: a speed dating event designed for real conversation, spontaneous laughter, and zero pressure. No awkward small talk. Just short, meaningful chats with local singles in a relaxed, curated setting. You’ll be gently guided through each round — so you can stay present and open.
Before the event, complete a quick personality survey to help us craft comfortable, compatible pairings. It’s easygoing, app-free, and perfect for first-timers (most guests have never done this before!).
✅ Meet like-minded locals
✅ Skip the swiping fatigue
✅ Enjoy authentic, real-time sparks
✅ Walk in curious, leave inspiredSpots are limited — secure yours before it’s gone.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come as you are. Leave open to what’s possible.
2 attendees
Portland Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 55+
1506 NE Lombard St, Portland, OR, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 55+.
Did you know 72% of singles say they’d rather meet someone in person — but just don’t know how? We’re changing that. 🍷
Join Portland’s most refreshing way to connect: a speed dating event designed for real conversation, spontaneous laughter, and zero pressure. No awkward small talk. Just short, meaningful chats with local singles in a relaxed, curated setting. You’ll be gently guided through each round — so you can stay present and open.
Before the event, complete a quick personality survey to help us craft comfortable, compatible pairings. It’s easygoing, app-free, and perfect for first-timers (most guests have never done this before!).
✅ Meet like-minded locals
✅ Skip the swiping fatigue
✅ Enjoy authentic, real-time sparks
✅ Walk in curious, leave inspiredSpots are limited — secure yours before it’s gone.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come as you are. Leave open to what’s possible.
1 attendee
