Name: Making the SHIFT
Start: 2025-07-07T12:00:00.000Z
Location: Online Webinar

**🌟 Men’s Work: Free Intro Night – Reclaim Your Masculine Ground**
**Are you a man looking for real connection, clarity, and purpose?**
This free intro session is your chance to experience *Men’s Work* — a powerful and practical path of growth, brotherhood, and inner strength.
**🗓 Hosted by:** Jase Chau
Founder of The Effata Guide \| Men’s Work Facilitator \| Original member of Arka Brotherhood

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### What You’ll Experience:

**🧭 Welcome & Introduction**

* Meet other men on a similar journey
* Learn what Men’s Work is (and what it *isn’t*)

**📚 Insight & Inspiration**

* A brief history of Men’s Work and why it matters now
* The myth of *Iron John* and the missing rites of passage
* Shadow Work: reclaiming your disowned parts
* The *Arka Code*: a grounded guide to modern masculinity

**🔥 Real Talk Circle**

* Share your story — or just listen
* No pressure, no posturing — just truth and respect
* This isn’t therapy — it’s brotherhood

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### What to Bring:

* A journal (optional)
* An open mind
* Your real self (even just a little bit)

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### Who’s It For?

This space is for **any man**, from any background or orientation, who’s ready to take a step toward wholeness. Whether you’re curious, skeptical, or already walking the path — you’re welcome here.

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**💸 Cost:** Free — your only investment is showing up.
**🔗 Read what other men are saying (5⭐ reviews):**
[https://tinyurl.com/bdzfccxd](https://tinyurl.com/bdzfccxd)
**🌐 Learn more about The Arka Code:**
[www.arkabrotherhood.com/the-code](http://www.arkabrotherhood.com/the-code)

Conscious Relating Workshops

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Free Intro to Men's Work

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**Making the Shift** is inspired by the work of Dr. David Hawkins’ Map of Consciousness, attachment theory, and somatic meditation. But at its core, Conscious Relating isn’t about chasing the typical self-help fantasy of “happily ever after.”

It’s not just another tool to fix your dating life or perfect your partnership. It goes deeper than that. It asks:
**What is your relationship with life itself?**

Because how you meet life—your presence, your patterns, your beliefs—ripples through every relationship you touch: with a lover, a parent, a child, a friend, a colleague, even a stranger.

This work doesn’t bypass the messy, real-time dynamics of intimacy. In fact, that’s exactly where the work happens. But we keep our eye on something deeper—what Sages might call the common ground of being—that shared essence beneath all the roles we play.
Conscious Relating is about aligning with that ground. Remembering it.

And choosing, again and again, to bring more of our awareness to it.
When we do, our relationships become more than just containers for comfort or survival.

They become catalysts for evolution.

Put simply: if a relationship—romantic, familial, communal, or organizational—isn’t helping us grow, it tends to regress. We fall into co-dependence. We stagnate.

And in group dynamics, when individuals avoid doing their inner work, the group becomes what we might call a lazy tribe—comfortable, perhaps, but unawake.
This path isn’t about perfection.

It’s about presence—and the courageous willingness to grow into something greater, together.

Understanding Attachment: From Wounding to Wholeness
Our patterns in love didn’t begin in adulthood.

They were etched early—through the nervous systems of caregivers, the unspoken rules of closeness, and the emotional landscapes we learned to survive in.

At the heart of conscious relating is a deeper understanding of attachment systems—how we bond, how we protect ourselves, and how we unconsciously repeat what’s familiar.

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**We explore the foundational journey from insecure to secure attachment.**

From anxious chasing or avoidant withdrawing, to the often overlooked disorganized style—where love and fear coexist in painful confusion.

Through the pioneering work of Hughes & Pears in attachment-based therapy, and insights from Stan Tatkin (Wired for Love) and Dr. Sue Johnson (Hold Me Tight, EFT), we begin to untangle the emotional blueprints that drive our most intimate moments at a real-world experiential level.

These aren’t just theories—they’re maps back to connection.
Maps that show us how to move from reactivity to repair, from shutdown to safety, from self-protection to co-regulation.

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This work is deeply informed by **Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)** and integrates seamlessly with the consciousness-based framework of **Dr. David Hawkins.**

Rather than getting lost in abstract psychology, we distill these teachings into something digestible and embodied—something you can feel in your nervous system and apply in your real-life relationships.

Because secure attachment isn’t a destination.
It’s a practice of presence.

A choice to stay open in the places we were once closed.
A re-education in love—not as fantasy, but as **courage gathered, shared growth, and felt shift.**

Join us for this monthly FREE session.
Continuing down the road is your choice.
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