What we’re about
# Queerli is a 501c3 nonprofit volunteer organization striving to create safer spaces for the LGBTQIA+ communities across eastern Long Island through inclusive events, education, and community support initiatives.
Upcoming events (1)
See all- Queer Night Out: Flannel FrigayThe Better Man Distilling Company, Patchogue, NY
OUR MOST POPULAR QUEER MIXER!! It’s going to be Flannel FriGAY at Queer Night Out on Friday 9/26 from 6–10pm at Better Man Distilling Co. in Patchogue. Come serve lumberjack realness or your inner 90s icon, sip something fun, and vibe to the alt-rock grunge tunes. Plus, we’re honoring Hispanic Heritage Month with incredible Hispanic/Latinx artists + vendors. ✨
Bring your flannel, bring your queer friends, and bring your Frigay energy.Arrive anytime between 6:00pm-10:00pm! There will be icebreaker cards & games on tables, along with queer art vendors that we spotlight each month. We stan a welcoming, safe environment, so feel free to invite any lonely queers to hang with your group! Cocktails, mocktails, and food are available for purchase.
PLEASE RESERVE YOUR SPOTS: qno725.eventbrite.com
The distillery needs to plan accordingly and prepare for the volume of queers we bring.$5 - 𝗦𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗗𝗼𝗻𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: This amount allows us to sustain our events and cover operational costs.
$10 - 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗽𝗶𝗼𝗻: This amount is for those in our communities who can afford to give a little extra, supporting us as we work to offer more experiences and safer spaces for the LGBTQIA+ communities.
$1 - 𝗘𝗾𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝘀𝘀: This end of the scale is for folks who are experiencing financial hardship and would benefit from the support of the community. Queerli events should be accessible to all people, regardless of finances, and we never want money to be a barrier to your attendance. If this tier is not accessible for you, enter an amount outside of the scale that is sustainable for you or contact us via email (hello@queerli.org) or DM @queerli.safespace. No one will be turned away due to a lack of funds.
All gender identities or expressions, sexualities, races, ethnicities, neurotypes, abilities and allies are welcome with the commitment of acting as a safe space for others.
Queerli will ask you to leave if you are not acting appropriately to make others feel safe and comfortable in this space.
𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗔𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗧𝗧𝗘𝗥 𝗠𝗔𝗡
The back parking lot has limited spaces. There are limited parking spots along the gate on Underwood Street. Please watch out for No Parking signs.Overflow parking is at the Patchogue LIRR station, which is less than a 10 minute walk! Better Man closes and locks their gates at 10:30PM SHARP. Cars parked on the side street will be TOWED, if left overnight.
Accessible parking spots are infront of the bottle shop with a ramp to the tasting room past the big letter B that lights up.
