Realcommit Valentines Group

Once you're part of the Realcommit Valentines Group, staying in touch is easy and natural. After events, members often form connections that continue through texting or grabbing coffee during the week, and we encourage that organic communication. While we don't push group chats or apps, we do share first names and first impressions at events to help spark real conversations, making it simple to reach out to someone you clicked with. It's all about creating space for genuine connection, both during and after our gatherings.

Most of our events have between 12 and 20 people, which is the sweet spot for meaningful interaction. It's small enough that everyone gets a chance to talk and connect, but diverse enough that you'll meet different kinds of people who are also looking for something real. We keep the size intentional so no one feels lost in the crowd, and everyone leaves having shared real moments, not just small talk.

We usually host meetups on weekend evenings, mostly Saturdays around 6 PM, because we know people are juggling busy lives during the week. This timing gives everyone a chance to unwind and show up present and relaxed. Occasionally we'll do Sunday afternoon outings for things like hiking or brunch, but the rhythm is consistent so you can plan around it without stress.

Realcommit Valentines Group came from seeing too many singles stuck in the cycle of dating apps and surface level meets. We wanted to create something different a space where people could actually get to know each other through shared experiences, not just photos and bios. The idea sparked after a few of us planned a small dinner that turned into real relationships and even an engagement. That moment showed us the power of thoughtful, in person connection and we decided to grow it into something more.

If you're tired of swiping and ready to meet people who are actually looking for love, this is your group. We're all about real moments, good conversation, and building something that lasts. You don't have to be perfect, just open minded and sincere. Come as you are, ready to connect, and let's create meaningful relationships together. There's a good chance your next chapter starts right here.