What we’re about
Hello! We all know divorce and separation can be complicated, and we want to make that life transition smoother for you. We have created a network/community for people who are considering divorce or separation, in the process of divorce, and already divorced or separated. Please join us for both educational and social meetups and events with divorce professionals, covering law, finance, parenting, self-empowerment, real estate, and more! We're here for the long haul. We are part of a group called Vesta: Redefining Divorce that is committed to helping you make informed life decisions and ease your life transitions. Hope to see you soon at some of our events!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Divorcing After the Age of 50 – Vesta's Hingham, MA HubLink visible for attendees
Join us for a confidential webinar focused on the nuances of divorce for couples approaching retirement age and becoming empty nesters.
About this event:
Join our Hingham, MA Hub of vetted professionals to learn how to navigate the divorce process while preparing for your next stage of life. We will have experts in legal, finance, mortgages, real estate, parenting, and coaching to assist you in preparing.
Over the last thirty years, the divorce rate among couples 50+ has doubled, while divorce between couples 65+ has tripled. "The Gray Divorce" refers to individuals, typically aged 50 and above, who have been married for a substantial period. Divorce can create stress and uncertainty for all parties involved; however, a divorce later in life has many additional nuances and variables.
Topics Covered:
- Financial planning: Social Security, Medicare, and Retirement Planning
- Selling the "Family Home"
- Downsizing: Tips, Tricks, and Organization Strategies
- Coping with being an "empty nester"
- Methods for telling adult children
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We respect your privacy, and your attendance is confidential. Zoom webinar attendees can only see the Presenters, not each other.
Advance registration is required; click here. During registration, please submit any questions about the divorce process. We will answer these during the Q&A portion of the event.
We will email the webinar link to those who have registered before the event. If you want to register for this event directly with us (instead of via Eventbrite), please email team@vestadivorce.com or call 1-877-355-7649.
Not sure where to begin? Connect with Vesta Co-Founder and Concierge Director Deanna Coyle, by scheduling a complimentary 30-minute Concierge call; click here.
- Finances and Divorce in Massachusetts – Vesta's Lexington/ Winchester, MA HubLink visible for attendees
Join our confidential event on navigating the financial aspects of divorce in Massachusetts, with a focus on assets, debts, and the family home.
About this Event:
Join the Lexington/ Winchester, MA Hub for a confidential and supportive event focused on some of the most critical — and often overwhelming — financial aspects of divorce: dividing assets, managing debt, and making informed decisions about the family home.
Massachusetts follows an equitable distribution model, which means the division of property is based on what’s fair, not necessarily equal. This includes consideration of all assets — even those acquired before the marriage or inherited — as Massachusetts does not automatically exclude separate property from division. The length of the marriage is also a key factor in determining how assets, debts, and even decisions about the home are approached.
Whether you're contemplating divorce, preparing for it, or actively going through the process, this event will offer practical tools, expert insights, and clear next steps to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Topics we’ll cover include:
- What does “equitable division” really mean in Massachusetts?
- Separate vs. marital property — what’s included and how it’s handled
- How the length of your marriage impacts financial decisions and outcomes
- Identifying and valuing different types of marital assets
- Managing and dividing debt fairly and strategically
- Should you keep the house, sell it, or refinance? Key considerations
- Traditional and complex retirement assets, including the QDRO process
- Creating a realistic post-divorce budget and savings plan
- Steps to rebuild financial stability and long-term independence
Follow us on our social media platforms – Facebook/Instagram/LinkedIn.
We respect your privacy, and your attendance is confidential. Zoom webinar attendees can only see the Presenters, not each other.
Advance registration is required: click here. During registration, please submit any questions about the divorce process. We will answer these during the Q&A portion of the event.
We will email the webinar link to those who have registered before the event. If you want to register for this event directly with us (instead of via Eventbrite), please email team@vestadivorce.com or call 1-877-355-7649.
Not sure where to begin? Connect with Vesta Co-Founder and Concierge Director Deanna Coyle, by scheduling a complimentary 30-minute Concierge call: click here.
- 7 Key Strategies When Divorcing a Narcissist – Vesta's Southern MA/RI HubLink visible for attendees
Attend our CONFIDENTIAL webinar to gain valuable strategies for divorcing someone displaying narcissistic or other high-conflict behaviors.
About this Event:
The process of separation or divorce can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with someone who presents with narcissistic behavior. With the guidance of our experts from Vesta's Southern MA/RI Hub, you will learn essential tools to face this challenge clearly and confidently.
Topics covered:
- Legal and Emotional Challenges: Understanding the intricacies of divorcing someone with a complex personality.
- Communication Strategies: How to talk and negotiate effectively.
- Setting Boundaries: Techniques for establishing and maintaining healthy limits.
- Legal Considerations: Navigating the unique legal challenges of divorcing a narcissist.
- Financial Considerations: Tips and best practices for protecting your financial interests.
- Parenting Concerns: Resources and techniques to navigate potential challenges and ensure your children’s emotional well-being.
- Emotional Resilience: Tools and techniques to bolster your emotional strength.
- Self-Care and Support: Prioritizing your well-being and seeking support throughout the process.
Attend this specialized workshop to comprehend the complexities of the divorce process and ensure you’re well-equipped for the journey ahead.
Follow us on our social media platforms – Facebook/Instagram/LinkedIn.
We respect your privacy, and your attendance is confidential. Zoom webinar attendees will only be able to see the Presenters and not each other.
Advance registration is required; click here. During registration, please submit any questions about the divorce process. We will answer these during the Q&A portion of the event.
We will email the webinar link to those who have registered before the event. If you want to register for this event directly with us (instead of via Eventbrite), please email team@vestadivorce.com or call 1-877-355-7649.
Not sure where to begin? Connect with Vesta Co-Founder and Concierge Director Deanna Coyle, by scheduling a complimentary 30-minute Concierge call; click here.
- Alimony, Child Support and Co–Parenting – Vesta's Boston, MA HubLink visible for attendees
Join us for a CONFIDENTIAL event to address your questions & concerns about alimony, child support, and the best ways to co-parent.
About this Event:
Join Boston, MA Hub's experts in divorce law and finance, who will address this critical topic. The questions of who pays alimony and child support in a divorce, how much the payments will be, and for how long can be a complex issue.
Combined with the challenges of co-parenting, these issues can be an enormous undertaking for divorcing families. Therefore, we designed this event to address divorce law, finances, and the best ways to co-parent.
Topics covered:
- How do you calculate expected alimony and child support payments?
- What are the ramifications if one fails to make the support payments?
- What payments should you expect to receive or pay? How does it factor into managing your cash flow?
- How will your obligation to pay or the ability to receive alimony and child support affect your ability to own (or rent) a home?
- What are the considerations regarding alimony?
- Ways to communicate positively with your co-parent so as not to impact the children
- Things to consider when creating a parenting plan
- Strategies to help your children have a sense of stability during and after the transitions
Follow us on our social media platforms – Facebook/Instagram/LinkedIn.
We respect your privacy, and your attendance is confidential. Zoom webinar attendees can only see the Presenters, not each other.
Advance registration is required; click here. During registration, please submit any questions about the divorce process. We will answer these during the Q&A portion of the event.
During registration, please submit any questions about the divorce process. We will answer these during the Q&A portion of the event. We will email the webinar link to those who have registered before the event.
If you want to register for this event directly with us (instead of via Eventbrite), please email team@vestadivorce.com or call 1-877-355-7649.
Not sure where to begin? Connect with Vesta Co-Founder and Concierge Director Deanna Coyle, by scheduling a complimentary 30-minute Concierge call; click here.
