What we’re about
Tired of swiping? So was I.
Dating apps left me feeling disconnected and drained and too often, they seemed designed more to keep you scrolling than to help you find someone real. That’s why I created Offline Hearts: a space for expat singles in their 30s and 40s in Rotterdam who are looking for something genuine, offline, and human.
This group is for people who are grounded, emotionally mature, and ready to build meaningful connections, whether romantic or friendly, through shared experiences and great conversations.
We’ll host fun, low-pressure events like swing dancing nights, kayaking trips, cinema evenings, 80s dance parties, group cycling, and visits to things like the BlueCity Townhalls. Think active, playful, conscious, and kind, just like the people we hope to meet.
If you're someone who wants a loving, healthy relationship… enjoys being active and curious about the world and prefers people over pixels, this is for you.
Who We're For:
Expat singles (30s & 40s) living in the Rotterdam area who are:
- Stable in their own lives and looking for the same in others
- Physically active and enjoy staying healthy
- Caring toward people and our environment
- Playful and curious about life
- Seeking genuine, healthy relationships
- Ready to move beyond the superficial dating app experience
What We Do:
We organize regular activities that bring together people with similar values:
- Cinema nights - discussing films that matter to us
- Dance evenings - swing dancing, 80s nights, and more
- Active adventures - cycling through Dutch countryside, kayaking local waterways
- Community engagement - BlueCity Townhalls and sustainability events
- Social gatherings - seasonal celebrations, cultural exchanges
Our Philosophy:
Dating apps are designed to keep you scrolling, not to help you find your person. We believe meaningful connections happen when you're doing things you love alongside people who share your values. Whether you're looking for your life partner or expanding your social circle with quality people, this group prioritizes authentic interactions over algorithms.
What to Expect:
Small, intimate gatherings (typically 8-15 people) where you can actually have conversations and get to know each other. No pressure, no profiles to swipe - just good people doing interesting things together. Some connections will be friendships, some might be more - and that's exactly how it should be.
Ready to try a different approach? Join us for our next event and experience what genuine connection feels like.
Group Guidelines: We maintain a respectful, inclusive environment. All events are alcohol-optional, and we welcome people regardless of relationship history, background, or where you are in your personal journey - as long as you're committed to treating others with kindness and authenticity.