About us
I started the Ruby Drift Singles Collective because I noticed how hard it can be to meet genuine people who are actually looking for something real. So many dating apps feel shallow or temporary, and I wanted to create a space where locals who are serious about building meaningful relationships could connect in a more natural, relaxed way. It hit me after chatting with a few friends who kept going on first dates that went nowhere what if we could skip the awkward small talk and just get to know each other through real experiences?
We usually plan our meetups for weekend afternoons or early evenings, mostly on Saturdays, because that’s when most people have the time and mental space to truly be present. Whether it’s a nature hike, a wine tasting, or a cozy dinner at a local favorite, we time things so you can enjoy the moment without rushing off to work or stressing about the week ahead.
We meet every two to three weeks, which gives everyone a chance to stay connected without it feeling overwhelming. It’s frequent enough to keep the momentum going and give you multiple opportunities to meet different people, but spaced out so it doesn’t take over your social calendar.
If you’re tired of swiping and small talk and actually want to meet kind, sincere people who are ready for something real, this is your invitation. The Ruby Drift Singles Collective is about slowing down, showing up as yourself, and connecting through shared moments that matter. Come as you are all we ask is that you’re open, respectful, and genuinely looking to build something meaningful. Let’s make space for real connection, one great event at a time.
Upcoming events
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Mesa Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💗 Speed Dating Reimagined – Online, Relaxed & Perfect for Beginners!
⚠️ IMPORTANT: Your RSVP Does NOT Guarantee a Spot!
To secure your place, you must register and complete the personality quiz by clicking one of the age group links below. Select your age range, click to register, and complete the quiz. Spots are limited – don't wait!
🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🎉 Ready to try something new from the comfort of home? Let's go! Our online speed dating events are specifically designed with first-timers in mind. Every conversation is guided, every interaction is comfortable, and you never have to leave your home.
🎯 Perfect for:
- People who want to meet local Mesa singles without leaving home
- People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: From the comfort of your own home – no need to go anywhere!
- Host: Warm, professional host dedicated to making everyone comfortable
- Vibe: Positive energy, real talk, and authentic connections with Mesa locals
- Rounds: Multiple short rounds so you meet plenty of people
- Support: Our host is available before, during, and after the event
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group – Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Join the Zoom Event – Log in from home and meet your host. We'll handle the rest!
- The Fun Part – Rotate through rounds of lively chats with pre-matched Mesa singles.
- Get Your Matches – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection!
💡 Advice: Treat each round like chatting with a friend. Keep it light, keep it real!
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.---
✨ Thousands of first-timers have found their match with us. You could be next! ✨ ✨44 attendees
Chandler Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💖 Zoom Speed Dating – Designed for First Timers – Meet Real Chandler Singles!
🚨 ACTION REQUIRED: RSVP Is Only Step One!
To actually attend, you need to register through your age group link below and complete the personality quiz. Spots are capped and we expect to sell out – register now!
🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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👋 First time speed dating? You'll wonder why you didn't try sooner! Online speed dating removes all the awkward parts of traditional dating. A friendly host guides you through each round, so all you have to do is show up and be yourself.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
- Anyone anxious about crowded bars or in-person meetups
⭐ "Way better than any dating app. Real conversations with real people. Loved it!" – Chandler attendee
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom – convenient, intimate & perfect for first-timers
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Your personal guide through the evening – friendly, encouraging, and fun
- Vibe: Low-pressure connections with welcoming Chandler singles – fun and easy
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range – Click the link for your age group and sign up.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- The Fun Part – Rotate through rounds of lively chats with pre-matched Chandler singles.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
💡 Note: You don't have to be perfect. Authenticity is the most attractive quality.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don't match with anyone?
That's okay! Many people attend multiple events before finding their match. Each event is a new opportunity.Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!---
✨ One event, multiple conversations, endless possibilities. Register now and see what happens! ✨ ✨44 attendees
Glendale Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline🌹 Comfortable Online Speed Dating – Built for Newcomers & First Timers!
⚠️ CRITICAL: Your Spot Is NOT Confirmed by RSVPing!
Follow these steps to secure entry:
- Select your age group below
- Click the registration link
- Complete the personality quiz
Spots are extremely limited!
👇 Pick Your Age Group & Secure Your Spot:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🌈 Looking for genuine connections? This event was made for you! This isn't your typical dating event. It's a curated, online experience where first-timers meet compatible Glendale singles in a low-key, guided environment. No pressure – just possibilities.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone looking for a fun, structured way to meet new people
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Answer a Few Fun Questions – Our quiz helps match you with compatible Glendale singles.
- Show Up on Zoom – Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let the host guide you through each round.
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Glendale singles who share your vibe.
- Your Results – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
Event Details
- Format: Online via Zoom – comfortable, low-pressure from anywhere
- Location: At home where you feel safe and relaxed – no crowded venues
- Host: Supportive facilitator experienced in helping newcomers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Relaxed conversations with friendly Glendale singles from the comfort of home
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
- Support: Our host is available before, during, and after the event
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✨ First-timers welcome, always. Join hundreds of Glendale singles who found love online! 🫶 ✨44 attendees
Scottsdale Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💘 Your First Speed Date Starts Here – Online, Easy & Pressure-Free!
🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly – act now to secure yours!
📌 Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🏠 Prefer to meet people from home first? Same here! Online speed dating removes all the awkward parts of traditional dating. A friendly host guides you through each round, so all you have to do is show up and be yourself.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Singles who prefer a safe, comfortable online environment
- People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
- People who want to meet local Scottsdale singles without leaving home
Event Details
- Format: Live on Zoom – easy to join, private, and beginner-friendly
- Location: Your personal space – the most comfortable date venue ever
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: Low-pressure connections with welcoming Scottsdale singles – fun and easy
- Matching: Powered by our personality quiz for better compatibility
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free
- Matches: Mutual matches revealed after the event
- Privacy: Your contact info is never shared without mutual consent
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot – Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Hop on Zoom – Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Scottsdale singles – all from your couch.
- Connect After the Event – Mutual matches are shared so you can continue the conversation.
💡 Heads up: The best connections happen when you're genuinely interested in the other person.
⭐ "The personality quiz really works. My matches were spot on!" – Happy first-timer
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✨ The best first-time experience happens at home – hosted on Zoom, welcoming and easy. ❤️🔥 ✨47 attendees
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