About us
Most of our members are locals who are tired of swiping through dating apps and want something real. They’re professionals in their 30s and 40s with steady careers, diverse interests, and a shared goal finding a genuine connection. Whether they’re new to the city or have lived here their whole lives, they’re ready to meet someone special through real experiences, not just small talk over drinks.
What really holds this community together is honesty, respect, and the courage to be open. We believe building a meaningful relationship starts with being authentic and showing up with good intentions. Everyone here values emotional maturity and is looking for love with intention, not just a quick spark. That’s why our events are designed to encourage real conversations and shared moments that help people truly get to know each other.
We’re based right in the heart of Austin, where the vibe is warm, creative, and full of energy just like our members. From cozy wine tastings in the Hill Country to live music nights and group hikes along Barton Creek, we take advantage of everything this city has to offer to create fun, low pressure ways to connect.
If you're ready to step out of the dating app grind and into real life, this is your community. Ruby Thorn is more than just events it's where lasting relationships begin. You’ll meet people who are just as serious about love as you are, all in a supportive space that makes connection feel natural. Come as you are, and let’s find something real together.
Upcoming events
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Portland Valentine's Singles Round Robins
·OnlineOnline💞 Discover Speed Dating Online – The Easiest Way for First Timers to Meet Someone!
🚨 ACTION REQUIRED: RSVP Is Only Step One!
To actually attend, you need to register through your age group link below and complete the personality quiz. Spots are capped and we expect to sell out – register now!
🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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💡 Curious about speed dating but nervous? We've got you! We built this event for people who are tired of apps but not ready for crowded mixers. It's the sweet spot – online, intimate, guided, and full of genuine Portland singles looking for real connections.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience – connect from the comfort of your own home
- Location: Your personal space – the most comfortable date venue ever
- Host: Charismatic host who keeps the energy positive and the nerves low
- Vibe: A feel-good evening of laughter and connection with Portland first-timers
- Rounds: Multiple short rounds so you meet plenty of people
- Duration: Around 1 to 1.5 hours – enough time to meet great people without dragging on
How It Works
- Sign Up – Click the registration link for your age bracket above.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Hop on Zoom – Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- Start Chatting – Short, timed conversations with compatible Portland singles. No awkward silences!
- Your Results – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.---
✨ The best first-time experience happens at home – hosted on Zoom, welcoming and easy. 💘 ✨2 attendees
Tacoma Valentine's Singles Round Robins
·OnlineOnline💞 Tacoma Online Speed Dating – A Guided, First-Timer-Friendly Experience!
⚠️ IMPORTANT: Your RSVP Does NOT Guarantee a Spot!
To secure your place, you must register and complete the personality quiz by clicking one of the age group links below. Select your age range, click to register, and complete the quiz. Spots are limited – don't wait!
✅ Step 1: Find Your Age Group & Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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💬 Real conversations beat endless texting. Meet someone tonight! Think of it as the easiest first date you'll ever have – from your couch, with a host who keeps things fun, and a room full of Tacoma singles who are just as excited (and maybe just as nervous) as you.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- Singles who appreciate a guided, hosted dating experience
- Anyone looking for a fun, structured way to meet new people
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom – convenient, intimate & perfect for first-timers
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Engaging guide creating a welcoming, pressure-free space for beginners
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Tacoma singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Complete the Personality Quiz – We'll match you with compatible Tacoma singles for the best experience.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Tacoma singles who share your vibe.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I'm shy or introverted?
You're in the right place! The online format and guided conversations make it easy and comfortable for everyone.Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.---
✨ Your comfort zone is your superpower. Speed date from home and meet someone incredible! 💗 ✨42 attendees
Seattle Valentine's Singles Round Robins
·OnlineOnline💓 First Time? No Problem – Online Speed Dating Made Welcoming & Fun!
🚨 ACTION REQUIRED: RSVP Is Only Step One!
To actually attend, you need to register through your age group link below and complete the personality quiz. Spots are capped and we expect to sell out – register now!
👇 Pick Your Age Group & Secure Your Spot:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🌈 Looking for genuine connections? This event was made for you! Forget everything you think you know about speed dating. Our online events are relaxed, guided, and perfect for anyone who's never done this before. Just log in from home and meet amazing Seattle singles.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- First-timers who want a safe space to practice dating skills
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: Fun, guided conversations that make meeting Seattle singles effortless
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Complete the Personality Quiz – We'll match you with compatible Seattle singles for the best experience.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Seattle singles – all from your couch.
- Your Results – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special.
💡 Pro tip: Have a drink ready and find a quiet, well-lit spot for the best experience.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the personality quiz for?
It helps us match you with compatible people so your conversations are more likely to click!How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!---
✨ Real people, real conversations, real connections – all from your living room. 💝 ✨43 attendees
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