About us
We believe the more you show up, the more you get out of it, so we encourage members to be regularly involved in our events. You don’t have to come to every single one, but the connections really start to grow when people keep showing up with an open heart and a positive attitude. Whether you're new to the area or just ready to meet someone special, being active in our group means you're saying yes to possibility and that’s the kind of energy we love.
Most of our meetups happen on weekends, especially Saturday evenings, because we know life gets busy during the week. That’s when we host our favorite events think cozy bonfire nights, scenic park picnics, or intimate wine tastings all designed to give you space to relax and really talk. We’ll occasionally schedule a Friday night or Sunday afternoon event too, so there’s always something coming up that might fit your schedule.
Yes, absolutely many of our most meaningful connections have started by helping out behind the scenes. We always welcome volunteers to help plan events, greet newcomers, or share ideas for new activities. If you’ve ever thought about stepping into a leadership role or just want to help create a warm, inclusive vibe, we’d love to chat. Some of our past event organizers actually met their partners right here in the group, so who knows where it might lead?
If you’re done with swiping and ready to meet genuine people in real life, Rusted Lantern Singles is for you. We’re all about slowing down, making real conversation, and giving relationships room to grow. This isn’t just another dating scene it’s a community of locals who are serious about finding love, and we’d be honored if you joined us. Bring your authentic self, and let’s create something meaningful together.
Upcoming events
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Bakersfield Online Speed Dating from Home
·OnlineOnline💖 First Time? No Problem – Online Speed Dating Made Welcoming & Fun!
🚨 ACTION REQUIRED: RSVP Is Only Step One!
To actually attend, you need to register through your age group link below and complete the personality quiz. Spots are capped and we expect to sell out – register now!
🔗 Click Your Age Group to Register & Complete the Quiz:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🎉 Ready to try something new from the comfort of home? Let's go! Speed dating online means you can be yourself in a space where you feel safe. No loud bars, no travel stress – just real conversations with real Bakersfield singles who are also looking for connection.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- Anyone looking for a fun, structured way to meet new people
- Singles looking for genuine connections beyond dating apps
- Anyone anxious about crowded bars or in-person meetups
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
⭐ "10/10 would do again. The host was amazing and I actually had fun dating!" – Bakersfield first-timer
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom event – feel like you're in the same room
- Location: Right where you are – no commute, no parking, no hassle
- Host: Charismatic host who keeps the energy positive and the nerves low
- Vibe: Light-hearted, easy-going speed dates with open-minded Bakersfield singles
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range – Click the link for your age group and sign up.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Join the Zoom Event – Log in from home and meet your host. We'll handle the rest!
- Start Chatting – Short, timed conversations with compatible Bakersfield singles. No awkward silences!
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
💡 Heads up: The best connections happen when you're genuinely interested in the other person.
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✨ One event, multiple conversations, endless possibilities. Register now and see what happens! 💖 ✨39 attendees
Fresno Online Speed Dating from Home
·OnlineOnline✨ Your First Speed Date Starts Here – Online, Easy & Pressure-Free!
🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly – act now to secure yours!
✅ Step 1: Find Your Age Group & Register:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🔑 The secret to great first dates? Feeling comfortable. Start here! We've helped thousands of first-timers discover the joy of speed dating from home. Short, fun conversations with compatible singles – it's easier than you think and more rewarding than any dating app.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
- Remote workers who love the convenience of online meetups
- People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online
- Anyone nervous about traditional dating scenes
Event Details
- Format: Online via Zoom – comfortable, low-pressure from anywhere
- Location: Right where you are – no commute, no parking, no hassle
- Host: Expert moderator ensuring every conversation flows naturally
- Vibe: Fun, guided conversations that make meeting Fresno singles effortless
- Matches: Mutual matches revealed after the event
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered to your inbox
- Matching: Powered by our personality quiz for better compatibility
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot – Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Hop on Zoom – Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Fresno singles who share your vibe.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
⭐ "From my couch to a great first date – this is the future of dating!" – Fresno local
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✨ Your next great connection could be one Zoom call away. Don't overthink it – just show up! 💗 ✨39 attendees
Sacramento Online Speed Dating from Home
·OnlineOnline💝 Online Speed Dating – No Awkwardness, Just Fun – Great for First Timers!
🚨 DON'T MISS THIS: RSVP Does Not Equal Entry!
To guarantee your spot, click the link for your age group below, register, and take the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – secure your place today!
🔗 Click Your Age Group to Register & Complete the Quiz:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🏠 Prefer to meet people from home first? Same here! Think of it as the easiest first date you'll ever have – from your couch, with a host who keeps things fun, and a room full of Sacramento singles who are just as excited (and maybe just as nervous) as you.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
- Singles who appreciate a guided, hosted dating experience
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot – Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Go Live – Enter the Zoom room, meet your host, and get ready for a great night.
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Sacramento singles – all from your couch.
- Get Your Matches – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection!
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom event – feel like you're in the same room
- Location: Anywhere with Wi-Fi – your couch, your café, your call
- Host: Supportive facilitator experienced in helping newcomers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Relaxed conversations with friendly Sacramento singles from the comfort of home
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered to your inbox
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
💡 First-timer tip: Don't overthink it – just be yourself! That's what everyone finds attractive.
⭐ "Finally, a dating event that doesn't make introverts feel out of place!" – Grateful attendee
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.---
✨ Your next great connection could be one Zoom call away. Don't overthink it – just show up! 🫶 ✨39 attendees
Long Beach Online Speed Dating from Home
·OnlineOnline💘 Virtual Speed Dating for Beginners – Meet Long Beach Singles Stress-Free!
⚠️ IMPORTANT: Your RSVP Does NOT Guarantee a Spot!
To secure your place, you must register and complete the personality quiz by clicking one of the age group links below. Select your age range, click to register, and complete the quiz. Spots are limited – don't wait!
📌 Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🔑 The secret to great first dates? Feeling comfortable. Start here! We've helped thousands of first-timers discover the joy of speed dating from home. Short, fun conversations with compatible singles – it's easier than you think and more rewarding than any dating app.
🎯 Perfect for:
- People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online
- People who want to meet local Long Beach singles without leaving home
- Singles who appreciate a guided, hosted dating experience
- Curious first-timers wanting to explore speed dating
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Answer a Few Fun Questions – Our quiz helps match you with compatible Long Beach singles.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Date from Home – Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Long Beach singles – all from your couch.
- See Who Liked You Back – Mutual matches sent to your inbox. Your next chapter begins!
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience – intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: A feel-good evening of laughter and connection with Long Beach first-timers
💡 Top tip: Good lighting and a tidy background go a long way on Zoom dates.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.---
✨ Your next great connection could be one Zoom call away. Don't overthink it – just show up! ❤️🔥 ✨39 attendees
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