About us
We love celebrating the little wins and big moments that happen within our community because finding a real connection is something worth toasting to. Whether someone has been on their first date with another member or theyve taken the leap into a committed relationship, we make space to cheer each other on during our events and in our private group chats. It’s not about grand gestures it’s about acknowledging that putting yourself out there takes courage, and when good things happen, we all get to share in that joy.
Safety and respect are at the heart of everything we do. We have a clear code of conduct that all members agree to it’s simple: be kind, be honest, and be respectful of boundaries. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable and valued, so we take any concerns seriously and have organizers on hand at every event to make sure things stay positive and inclusive. Trust is built through consistency, and we’re committed to creating a space where people can open up without worry.
Our events usually run between two and three hours, just enough time to connect meaningfully without feeling rushed or overwhelmed. We plan activities that spark real conversation think cozy trivia nights, scenic hiking meetups, or small group dinners so you’re not stuck in awkward small talk. The pace is relaxed, the vibe is warm, and there’s always room to step back if you need a breather. It’s not about pressure to perform it’s about giving you the time and space to be yourself.
The Rusted Lantern Singles Collective started because we noticed a gap in the dating scene around here. So many events feel superficial or high pressure, and apps can leave you feeling drained and disconnected. We wanted to create something different a place where locals who are serious about building something real could meet without the noise and games. Inspired by the warmth of a lantern glowing in the dark, we built this community to be a steady light for people navigating the sometimes tricky path to love.
If you’re tired of swiping and small talk, and you’re ready to meet people who are actually looking for something meaningful, this is your invitation. No games, no gimmicks just genuine connections over shared experiences. We’re all in this together, trying to find that rare kind of connection that lasts. Come see what it feels like to be part of a group that values depth, kindness, and real conversation. You might just find more than you expected.
Upcoming events
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Bakersfield Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline✨ Comfortable Online Speed Dating – Built for Newcomers & First Timers!
🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly – act now to secure yours!
🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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😌 Dating shouldn't feel stressful. That's why we made this event! No experience needed. No dating profile required. Just real people having real conversations. Our online format makes it easy for first-timers to connect with Bakersfield singles in a pressure-free setting.
🎯 Perfect for:
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
How It Works
- Sign Up – Click the registration link for your age bracket above.
- Complete the Personality Quiz – We'll match you with compatible Bakersfield singles for the best experience.
- Hop on Zoom – Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Bakersfield singles who share your vibe.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
Event Details
- Format: Zoom meetup – real-time conversations in a relaxed online space
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Friendly host who makes first-timers feel welcome and at ease
- Vibe: Genuine, enjoyable mini-dates with welcoming Bakersfield singles
- Dress code: Smart casual – look good, feel good!
- Support: Our host is available before, during, and after the event
💡 Pro tip: Have a drink ready and find a quiet, well-lit spot for the best experience.
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after the event?
We reveal mutual matches after the event. If you both liked each other, we help you connect!What if my internet drops?
No worries – our host will help you reconnect. Technical hiccups happen and we're prepared for them!How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!---
✨ Great connections start with a single conversation. Yours could start tonight! 🌹 ✨38 attendees
Fresno Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💘 Your First Speed Date Starts Here – Online, Easy & Pressure-Free!
🚨 DON'T MISS THIS: RSVP Does Not Equal Entry!
To guarantee your spot, click the link for your age group below, register, and take the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – secure your place today!
📌 Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🤝 Tired of swiping with no results? Try real conversations instead! Our online speed dating events are specifically designed with first-timers in mind. Every conversation is guided, every interaction is comfortable, and you never have to leave your home.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone anxious about crowded bars or in-person meetups
- Singles who prefer a safe, comfortable online environment
- People seeking meaningful connections in a relaxed setting
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
- Anyone nervous about traditional dating scenes
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group – Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Fresno singles who share your vibe.
- Match Results – Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you!
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience – connect from the comfort of your own home
- Location: From the comfort of your own home – no need to go anywhere!
- Host: Engaging guide creating a welcoming, pressure-free space for beginners
- Vibe: Relaxed conversations with friendly Fresno singles from the comfort of home
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered to your inbox
- Icebreakers: Fun prompts provided to keep conversations flowing
- Tech: All you need is Zoom, a webcam, and a smile
💡 Note: You don't have to be perfect. Authenticity is the most attractive quality.
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✨ Great connections start with a single conversation. Yours could start tonight! 💘 ✨39 attendees
Sacramento Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💝 Online Speed Dating – Perfect for First Timers – Connect with Local Singles from Anywhere!
⚠️ IMPORTANT: Your RSVP Does NOT Guarantee a Spot!
To secure your place, you must register and complete the personality quiz by clicking one of the age group links below. Select your age range, click to register, and complete the quiz. Spots are limited – don't wait!
🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🌈 Looking for genuine connections? This event was made for you! Our online speed dating events are specifically designed with first-timers in mind. Every conversation is guided, every interaction is comfortable, and you never have to leave your home.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
- Singles who prefer a safe, comfortable online environment
Event Details
- Format: Zoom video event – interactive, personal, and welcoming
- Location: Your favourite spot at home – slippers optional, charm required
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: Relaxed conversations with friendly Sacramento singles from the comfort of home
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Sacramento singles.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
💡 First-timer tip: Don't overthink it – just be yourself! That's what everyone finds attractive.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I'm shy or introverted?
You're in the right place! The online format and guided conversations make it easy and comfortable for everyone.How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!---
✨ Connect from your comfort zone with friendly Sacramento first-timers – no pressure, just possibilities! 💓 ✨39 attendees
Long Beach Locals Speed dating for Single professionals
·OnlineOnline💘 Long Beach Online Speed Dating – A Guided, First-Timer-Friendly Experience!
🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly – act now to secure yours!
📌 Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🌟 Want to meet real singles without the bar scene? Welcome! Forget everything you think you know about speed dating. Our online events are relaxed, guided, and perfect for anyone who's never done this before. Just log in from home and meet amazing Long Beach singles.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Curious first-timers wanting to explore speed dating
- First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience
- First-timers who want to date without the pressure of face-to-face meetings
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
Event Details
- Format: Hosted live on Zoom – guided, fun, and stress-free
- Location: At home where you feel safe and relaxed – no crowded venues
- Host: Friendly host who makes first-timers feel welcome and at ease
- Vibe: Fun, guided conversations that make meeting Long Beach singles effortless
How It Works
- Sign Up – Click the registration link for your age bracket above.
- Take the Quick Compatibility Quiz – Help us pair you with like-minded Long Beach first-timers.
- Hop on Zoom – Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Long Beach singles who share your vibe.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
💡 Pro tip: Have a drink ready and find a quiet, well-lit spot for the best experience.
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✨ Your comfort zone is your superpower. Speed date from home and meet someone incredible! ✨ ✨39 attendees
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