About us
We care about making sure everyone can fully enjoy our events so we always consider accessibility when choosing venues and planning activities. That means prioritizing spots that are wheelchair accessible, have gender neutral restrooms when possible, and are reachable by public transit. We also keep group sizes manageable so connections feel comfortable and no one gets lost in the crowd. If you have a specific need or suggestion, we’re all ears just let us know and we’ll do our best to make it work because everyone deserves a fair shot at finding real connection.
The group was actually born out of real talk over coffee between friends who were all tired of swiping endlessly and meeting people who weren’t really looking for anything serious. We kept hearing the same thing from folks around town I want something real, but I don’t know where to meet those kinds of people. So we decided to create a space where intentionality comes first, where events aren’t just about mixing drinks but mixing hearts in a genuine way. Sable Flame was built on the idea that love shouldn’t feel like a game, and that shared experiences are the best way to grow real connections.
When someone finds their person or hits a big relationship milestone, we celebrate like family. Whether it’s a member announcing an engagement, moving in together, or just sharing how much they’ve grown through the group, we take time at events to give them a real shoutout sometimes with a little toast, sometimes just heartfelt applause. It’s not about attention, it’s about honoring the courage it takes to open up and the joy that comes when it leads to something beautiful. These wins inspire everyone and remind us why we keep showing up.
If you’re someone who’s done with shallow small talk and ready to meet others who are actually looking for something real, this is your crew. Sable Flame isn’t about perfection it’s about showing up as you are and being part of a community that values honesty, warmth, and real connection. We plan events that spark conversation, create laughter, and leave room for sparks to fly everything from cozy dinner gatherings to outdoor adventures. So if you’re ready to meet like minded singles who are just as serious about love as you are, come join us. Your next chapter might just start at our next event.
Upcoming events
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Durham Personality Aligned Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline🌹 Speed Dating Reimagined – Online, Relaxed & Perfect for Beginners!
🚨 DON'T MISS THIS: RSVP Does Not Equal Entry!
To guarantee your spot, click the link for your age group below, register, and take the quick personality quiz. We have limited capacity – secure your place today!
🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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😊 Anxious about meeting in person? We get it! Online speed dating removes all the awkward parts of traditional dating. A friendly host guides you through each round, so all you have to do is show up and be yourself.
🎯 Perfect for:
- People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom event – feel like you're in the same room
- Location: At home where you feel safe and relaxed – no crowded venues
- Host: Your personal guide through the evening – friendly, encouraging, and fun
- Vibe: Warm, genuine conversations with Durham locals who are looking for real connection
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz – A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Go Live – Enter the Zoom room, meet your host, and get ready for a great night.
- Speed Dating Rounds – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Durham singles.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
⭐ "I was skeptical about online speed dating, but it exceeded all my expectations." – Durham professional
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.Is my information private?
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✨ One event, multiple conversations, endless possibilities. Register now and see what happens! ✨ ✨45 attendees
Greensboro Personality Aligned Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline💘 Meet Local Singles Online – Speed Dating Made Easy for First Timers!
⚠️ RSVP ≠ Registration!
Your Meetup RSVP alone does not secure a spot. You must click your age group link below, complete registration, and finish the personality quiz. Spots are limited and fill fast!
📌 Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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😎 Skip the awkward bar approach. Try guided online speed dating! Our online speed dating events are specifically designed with first-timers in mind. Every conversation is guided, every interaction is comfortable, and you never have to leave your home.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone nervous about traditional dating scenes
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- Anyone who believes great chemistry starts with great conversation
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
⭐ "The online format was perfect for me. I felt comfortable and had a blast!" – Greensboro single
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience – connect from the comfort of your own home
- Location: No venue needed – just a comfy seat and a good internet connection
- Host: Expert moderator ensuring every conversation flows naturally
- Vibe: A feel-good evening of laughter and connection with Greensboro first-timers
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered to your inbox
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
- Matching: Powered by our personality quiz for better compatibility
How It Works
- Select Your Age Range – Click the link for your age group and sign up.
- Do the Matching Quiz – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Greensboro singles who share your vibe.
- Discover Your Matches – We'll notify you of any mutual interest after the event. The rest is up to you!
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✨ Great connections start with a single conversation. Yours could start tonight! 🥰 ✨46 attendees
Winston-Salem Personality Aligned Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline❤️🔥 Meet Local Singles Online – Speed Dating Made Easy for First Timers!
🔴 IMPORTANT NOTICE: RSVP ≠ Guaranteed Entry!
You must register via your age group link below AND complete the personality quiz. This is required to participate. Limited spots – register immediately to avoid missing out!
🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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👋 First time speed dating? You'll wonder why you didn't try sooner! Forget everything you think you know about speed dating. Our online events are relaxed, guided, and perfect for anyone who's never done this before. Just log in from home and meet amazing Winston-Salem singles.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
- Singles who feel more comfortable meeting from home first
- Busy professionals who value their time and comfort
How It Works
- Pick Your Session – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot.
- Take the Quick Compatibility Quiz – Help us pair you with like-minded Winston-Salem first-timers.
- Connect on Zoom – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- Start Chatting – Short, timed conversations with compatible Winston-Salem singles. No awkward silences!
- Connect After the Event – Mutual matches are shared so you can continue the conversation.
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience – connect from the comfort of your own home
- Location: From the comfort of your own home – no need to go anywhere!
- Host: Friendly host who makes first-timers feel welcome and at ease
- Vibe: Warm, genuine conversations with Winston-Salem locals who are looking for real connection
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I'm shy or introverted?
You're in the right place! The online format and guided conversations make it easy and comfortable for everyone.Is my information private?
Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent.---
✨ The best first-time experience happens at home – hosted on Zoom, welcoming and easy. 💘 ✨47 attendees
Raleigh Personality Aligned Speed Dating
·OnlineOnline💖 Your First Speed Date Starts Here – Online, Easy & Pressure-Free!
⚠️ PLEASE READ: Simply RSVPing Will Not Secure Your Spot!
To join this event, click your age group registration link below, sign up, and complete the short personality quiz. Capacity is strictly limited – don't delay!
👇 Pick Your Age Group & Secure Your Spot:
- Ages 18-32 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ → REGISTER HERE
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🙌 Never tried speed dating before? You're in the right place! No experience needed. No dating profile required. Just real people having real conversations. Our online format makes it easy for first-timers to connect with Raleigh singles in a pressure-free setting.
🎯 Perfect for:
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
- Singles anxious about meeting in person who prefer the comfort of home
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience
Event Details
- Format: Zoom video event – interactive, personal, and welcoming
- Location: Your personal space – the most comfortable date venue ever
- Host: Seasoned speed dating host with a talent for putting first-timers at ease
- Vibe: Positive energy, real talk, and authentic connections with Raleigh locals
- Rounds: Multiple short rounds so you meet plenty of people
- Accessibility: Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group – Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration.
- Finish the Short Personality Assessment – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening.
- Log In & Relax – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics!
- Meet Your Matches – Rotate through fun one-on-one rounds with Raleigh singles who share your vibe.
- See Who Liked You Back – Mutual matches sent to your inbox. Your next chapter begins!
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✨ Connect from your comfort zone with friendly Raleigh first-timers – no pressure, just possibilities! 🌹 ✨44 attendees
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