
What we’re about
Most of our events run for about two to three hours, just the right amount of time to really connect without feeling rushed or overwhelming. Whether it’s a cozy dinner, a scenic hike, or a creative workshop, we plan each activity to give everyone plenty of time to chat, laugh, and get to know each other naturally.
We usually host meetups on weekends Saturdays and Sundays are our go to days because we know life gets busy during the week. Events often start in the late afternoon or early evening, so you can still enjoy your day and wind down with some genuine conversation and good company.
Our goal is to create a warm, relaxed culture where everyone feels seen and respected. We’re all about kindness, authenticity, and zero pressure. This isn’t a place for games or surface level small talk we’re here to build trust, share real moments, and support each other in finding meaningful connections.
If you’re someone who loves bringing people together, we’d love to have you step into a volunteer or leadership role. Helping plan events or co hosting a meetup is a great way to deepen your involvement and give back to a community that values intention and heart.
If you're tired of swiping and ready for something real, this is your invitation. Safeharbor is for locals who want more than a quick date they want a lasting connection. Come as you are, join us for an event, and see what can grow when people come together with openness and hope.
Upcoming events
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New York City Speed Dating For Serious Relationships
55 Java St, New York City, NY, US💕 Introvert-Friendly Speed Dating – Find Real Connections from Home!
🎯 Perfect for:- Shy or introverted singles looking for romance
- Professionals who prefer meaningful dialogue
- Those tired of superficial dating scenes
- People who want genuine connections without pressure
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom – introvert-friendly & intimate
- Location: Anywhere you feel comfortable (home, café, etc.)
- Host: Friendly & understanding host who gets the introvert experience
- Pressure-free: Quality conversations with compatible New York City singles in a relaxed environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event → REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event → REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from New York City, no awkward bar scenes required.
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✨ Your ideal partner is waiting. Join us for authentic introvert-friendly dating. ✨36 attendees