
What weβre about
Our events are designed to feel natural and fun, so we focus on social mixers that mix conversation with light activities think dinner meetups, themed outings like picnics in the park, wine tastings, or trivia nights. We keep the format relaxed so youβre not stuck in awkward icebreakers, but instead have real opportunities to connect through shared experiences. These arenβt your typical speed dating events; we give you time to get to know people at a pace that feels comfortable and authentic.
We ask that members come with an open heart and a respectful attitude serious about finding a meaningful relationship, not just passing time. That means showing up on time, being present during events, and treating everyone with kindness and sincerity. Weβre all here for the same reason to meet someone special so being genuine and putting in a little effort goes a long way.
While friendships often form in our group, our main goal is building romantic connections, not professional networking. That said, we know life has layers, and if you naturally bond with someone who happens to work in your field, thatβs okay too. But we encourage everyone to stay focused on getting to know each other as potential partners first.
Safety is a top priority for us. All events are hosted by trusted organizers, and we maintain a zero tolerance policy for disrespectful or inappropriate behavior. Everyone checks in with photo ID, and we keep guest lists private to protect privacy. If someone makes you uncomfortable, our team is always on hand to step in. We want you to feel emotionally and physically safe so you can be your true self.
If youβre tired of swiping through endless profiles and want to meet real people in real life, this is your chance. Safeharbor Valentines Group is all about creating a warm, drama free space where genuine connections can grow. We believe love starts with a simple conversation and sometimes, all you need is the right setting to begin. Come join us, open up, and see where a meaningful connection might lead.
Upcoming events
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Yonkers Online Speed Dating Valentines Edition
V3P9+93 Englewood Cliffs, Yonkers, NY, USπ Virtual Speed Dating for Introverts β Genuine Connections Without the Noise!
π― Perfect for:- Introverts seeking meaningful relationships
- People who dread loud, crowded dating venues
- Conversation enthusiasts who value quality over quantity
- Anyone wanting to find love from their comfort zone
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience β designed with introverts in mind
- Location: Your ideal space β wherever you feel most at ease
- Host: Compassionate facilitator trained in introvert-friendly connections
- Pressure-free: Quality conversations with compatible Yonkers singles in a relaxed environment
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group - Pick the session tailored to your age range.
- Take a Brief Personality Assessment - We'll use it to optimize your matches.
- Participate in Speed Dating Rounds - Engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Spark a Real Connection - Meet someone amazing from Yonkers naturally.
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β¨ Introverts deserve love too! Join us for a comfortable, genuine dating experience. β¨1 attendee
New York City Online Speed Dating Valentines Edition
Weehawken Pier, New York City, NY, USπ Speed Dating Reimagined for Introverts β Quality Over Crowds!
π― Perfect for:- Introverts seeking meaningful relationships
- People who dread loud, crowded dating venues
- Conversation enthusiasts who value quality over quantity
- Anyone wanting to find love from their comfort zone
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom β introvert-friendly & intimate
- Location: Your comfort zone (meet from home!)
- Host: Friendly & understanding host who gets the introvert experience
- Pressure-free: Genuine chats with like-minded New York City singles β no pressure, just possibilities
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group - Pick the session tailored to your age range.
- Take a Brief Personality Assessment - We'll use it to optimize your matches.
- Participate in Speed Dating Rounds - Engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Spark a Real Connection - Meet someone amazing from New York City naturally.
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β¨ Your ideal partner is waiting. Join us for authentic introvert-friendly dating. β¨1 attendee
Jersey City Online Speed Dating Valentines Edition
MWM4+CQ Jersey City, Jersey City, NJ, USπ Virtual Speed Dating for Introverts β Genuine Connections Without the Noise!
π― Perfect for:- Introverts who want to meet someone special
- Shy individuals dreading traditional dating scenes
- Anyone who prefers genuine conversations over small talk
- Those who want meaningful connections from home
Event Details
- Format: Online via Zoom β comfortable, low-pressure setting
- Location: Your ideal space β wherever you feel most at ease
- Host: Friendly & understanding host who gets the introvert experience
- Pressure-free: Genuine chats with like-minded Jersey City singles β no pressure, just possibilities
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group - Pick the session tailored to your age range.
- Take a Brief Personality Assessment - We'll use it to optimize your matches.
- Participate in Speed Dating Rounds - Engaging one-on-one conversations.
- Spark a Real Connection - Meet someone amazing from Jersey City naturally.
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β¨ Love shouldn't require you to be someone you're not. Join us today! β¨1 attendee
Newark Online Speed Dating Valentines Edition
312 Gregory Ave, Newark, NJ, USπ Speed Dating for Introverts β No Awkward Crowds, Just Meaningful Connections!
π― Perfect for:- Shy or introverted singles looking for romance
- Professionals who prefer meaningful dialogue
- Those tired of superficial dating scenes
- People who want genuine connections without pressure
Event Details
- Format: Virtual on Zoom β introvert-friendly & intimate
- Location: Your comfort zone (meet from home!)
- Host: Experienced host who understands introvert needs
- Pressure-free: Meaningful dialogue with Newark singles in a pressure-free zone
Age Groups & Registration
- Ages 20-36 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 Event β REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ Event β REGISTER HERE
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group - Choose and register for the speed dating session that matches your age range above.
- Fill out a Personality Quiz - Fast and simple! We'll match you with compatible singles.
- Speed Dating Rounds - Quick, fun conversations with potential matches.
- Find Your Match - Connect with someone special from Newark, no awkward bar scenes required.
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β¨ Your ideal partner is waiting. Join us for authentic introvert-friendly dating. β¨1 attendee