
What we’re about
What makes this group unique is how we take the pressure out of dating and focus on real connection through shared experiences. Instead of awkward speed dating or loud bars, we plan low key, thoughtfully curated activities like scenic hikes, cooking classes, book club meetups, or coffee walks around Green Lake where meaningful conversations happen naturally. It’s not about how many people you meet, it’s about connecting with the right ones, and we design every event with that in mind.
Once you join, you’re part of a warm, private community where members stay in touch between events through our member only chat space. It’s a relaxed way to get to know people, share interests, or even plan small meetups on your own like grabbing brunch or checking out a local art show. Lots of relationships here start with a simple message like ‘Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you about vinyl records last weekend want to check out that Ballard record store together?’
We encourage members to be as active as feels right for them some folks come to every event and chat regularly, others attend once a month and take their time getting involved. There’s no pressure, but the more you show up, the more chances you have to meet someone special. Even just being present and open minded can lead to great conversations and real sparks.
We care about making this group welcoming for everyone, so we choose accessible venues with wheelchair access, gender neutral restrooms when possible, and seating accommodations. We also rotate event locations across different neighborhoods to keep things convenient and consider public transit options. If you have specific needs or suggestions, we’re always listening and happy to help make adjustments so you can participate comfortably.
If you’re done with swiping and ready to meet genuine people who are also looking for something real, this is your group. Seattle Slow And Steady Romance is more than just events it’s a community built on patience, authenticity, and the belief that lasting love often starts with a simple, shared moment. Come as you are, take your time, and let meaningful connections grow at a pace that feels right. We’d love to have you.
Upcoming events
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Seattle Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 20-35
JQ59+CF Medina, Seattle, WA, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 20-35.
Tired of swiping in silence? Imagine stepping into a room where laughter flows as easily as the wine, and meaningful connections spark in minutes. This isn’t just another dating event — it’s a thoughtfully curated experience for Seattle singles ready to meet someone real.
Hosted in a chic, relaxed setting, our speed dating night blends brief, engaging conversations with seamless transitions — no awkward pauses, no guesswork. You’ll enjoy:
• Personalized pairings based on your short personality survey
• A judgment-free zone perfect for first-timers
• Natural, face-to-face chemistry over screens
• A smooth, guided format that keeps energy high
• A refreshing alternative to dating appsWith limited spots available, this intimate gathering is designed to feel exclusive — and unforgettable. Most guests come solo, just like you, curious but hopeful. This is your chance to step out of routine and into possibility.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Leave connected.
1 attendee
Seattle Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 33-48
2430 76th Ave SE, Seattle, WA, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 33-48.
Tired of swiping in silence? Imagine stepping into a room where laughter flows as easily as the wine, and meaningful connections spark in minutes. This isn’t just another dating event — it’s a thoughtfully curated experience for Seattle singles ready to meet someone real.
Hosted in a chic, relaxed setting, our speed dating night blends brief, engaging conversations with seamless transitions — no awkward pauses, no guesswork. You’ll enjoy:
• Personalized pairings based on your short personality survey
• A judgment-free zone perfect for first-timers
• Natural, face-to-face chemistry over screens
• A smooth, guided format that keeps energy high
• A refreshing alternative to dating appsWith limited spots available, this intimate gathering is designed to feel exclusive — and unforgettable. Most guests come solo, just like you, curious but hopeful. This is your chance to step out of routine and into possibility.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Leave connected.
1 attendee
Seattle Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 45-58
2719 93rd Ave NE, Seattle, WA, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 45-58.
Tired of swiping in silence? Imagine stepping into a room where laughter flows as easily as the wine, and meaningful connections spark in minutes. This isn’t just another dating event — it’s a thoughtfully curated experience for Seattle singles ready to meet someone real.
Hosted in a chic, relaxed setting, our speed dating night blends brief, engaging conversations with seamless transitions — no awkward pauses, no guesswork. You’ll enjoy:
• Personalized pairings based on your short personality survey
• A judgment-free zone perfect for first-timers
• Natural, face-to-face chemistry over screens
• A smooth, guided format that keeps energy high
• A refreshing alternative to dating appsWith limited spots available, this intimate gathering is designed to feel exclusive — and unforgettable. Most guests come solo, just like you, curious but hopeful. This is your chance to step out of routine and into possibility.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Leave connected.
2 attendees
Seattle Virtual Hearts Meetup - Ages 55+
3847 Hunts Point Rd, Seattle, WA, USOnline Speed Dating Event for Ages 55+.
Tired of swiping in silence? Imagine stepping into a room where laughter flows as easily as the wine, and meaningful connections spark in minutes. This isn’t just another dating event — it’s a thoughtfully curated experience for Seattle singles ready to meet someone real.
Hosted in a chic, relaxed setting, our speed dating night blends brief, engaging conversations with seamless transitions — no awkward pauses, no guesswork. You’ll enjoy:
• Personalized pairings based on your short personality survey
• A judgment-free zone perfect for first-timers
• Natural, face-to-face chemistry over screens
• A smooth, guided format that keeps energy high
• A refreshing alternative to dating appsWith limited spots available, this intimate gathering is designed to feel exclusive — and unforgettable. Most guests come solo, just like you, curious but hopeful. This is your chance to step out of routine and into possibility.
Reserve your place and complete your personality survey here: REGISTER HERE
Come curious. Leave connected.
1 attendee