Shy Philosophers on Empathy

NB: This is a tentatively scheduled event. Events are confirmed and announced 2 weeks before the event begins, at which time RSVP's are opened.

Is Empathy a Strength, a Bias, or a Skill?
This week, we turn to empathy—the ability (or effort) to understand and feel what others are going through. Is empathy a moral cornerstone, the glue of social life? Or can it mislead us, cloud judgment, or create blind spots?

Let’s consider:

• What exactly is empathy—an emotional resonance, a cognitive understanding, or both? How does it differ from sympathy or compassion?
• Is empathy something innate or learned? Can (and should) we cultivate it through education or practice?
• Is empathy necessary for ethics—or can one act morally without feeling others’ pain?
• Can empathy distort moral judgment? Are we more empathetic to people who are more like us, and does that make us unjust toward others?
• Is too much empathy a problem? Does emotional over-identification ever get in the way of action, reason, or fairness?
• How does empathy function in politics, social media, or global crises? Can it scale—or does it always remain personal and selective?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to Episode 7 of the Overthink podcast on empathy: https://overthinkpodcast.com/episodes/episode-07

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1. Discussion Style
We aim for a cooperative flow, like passing a ball among teammates rather than engaging in back-and-forth debates. Please share the “ball” so everyone has a voice.
2. Brief Points (2-3 Minutes)
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3. No Crosstalk
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4. Avoid Ad Hominem Remarks
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