Shy Philosophers on The Self

Who Am I, Really?
This week, we’ll explore one of philosophy’s oldest and most personal questions: what makes you you?
Are we our memories, our bodies, our minds—or something else entirely? And if we change over time, what (if anything) remains the same?
Let’s consider:

• If your body completely regenerates its cells every few years, in what sense are you the same person you were ten years ago?
• If you were copied atom-by-atom and teleported to another planet, would you survive—or would that just be a perfect replica?
• How does telling the story of your life shape who you are?
• Should someone be punished for crimes they no longer remember committing?
• How much of who we are is chosen, and how much is given by culture, language, and history?
• What might it mean to lose your self entirely—through meditation, mind-altering substances, illness, or death?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to “Personal Identity: A Primer” from The Philosopher’s Zone (ABC Radio National), featuring philosopher Patrick Stokes:
https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/philosopherszone/personal-identity:-a-primer/8996320

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