Shy Philosophers on Mortality

How should the fact of death shape a life?
Let's consider:

• Does the fact of finitude give life meaning—or does it distort meaning by rushing or frightening us?
• “Live as if today were your last”: illuminating advice or a recipe for impulsiveness?
• What counts as a good death—for the person and for the community that survives them?
• How does grief alter identity (yours and the mourners’)?
• Would significant life-extension or “immortality” make life richer or emptier?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to "What's new in death", a two-part podcast episode from The Philosopher’s Zone (ABC Radio National):
Part 1, related to grief): https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/philosopherszone/what-s-new-in-death-part-1/101324096
Part 2, related to (non-)existence: https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/philosopherszone/what-s-new-in-death-part-2/101352676

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