Shy Philosophers on Altruism

Let’s consider:

• Have you ever done something truly selfless — or, on reflection, was there always something in it for you, even if just a good feeling?
• Does motivation matter, or only outcome? If someone does enormous good in the world but always for self-interested reasons, are they a good person?
• If you can prevent something terrible happening to a stranger without much cost to yourself, are you morally obligated to — or is helping always a choice, never a duty?
• Can institutions or governments be altruistic — or is altruism by definition something only individuals can practice?
• If we discover that the impulse to help others is entirely explained by evolution or brain chemistry, would that change how you think about it morally?
• If true selflessness were psychologically impossible — if we always act for reasons that satisfy something in us — would that make altruism an illusion, or do we need a better definition of the word?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can watch or listen to this episode from the BBC In our Time podcast:

• https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/altruism/id73330895?i=1000623288112

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