Parlour Series: Utopia
Details
Parlour series events are hosted in members' homes, so they work a little differently from our public events. The group size will be smaller, so we give preference to people who have recently attended another event. If you're interested in joining, please add yourself to the waitlist!
The address will be posted as a private comment below, visible only to attendees. It is near the location pin that is visible publicly.
Please note that for this event, we may sit out on a patio if the weather is nice, so please dress accordingly. Also, the hosts have a couple of friendly dogs!
Let’s consider:
- Is there a society that could be genuinely good for everyone, or is one person's utopia always another's constraint?
- What would a truly good society owe its members, and vice versa?
- What should we learn from the fact that some of history's most destructive regimes began as visions of an ideal society?
- Can a utopia accommodate genuine dissent, or does the very logic of a perfect society require conformity?
- Would you trade some personal freedom for a guaranteed life of security, meaning, and belonging?
- If a society eliminated conflict, scarcity, and suffering entirely, would it be a paradise — or would something important be lost?
No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can watch or listen to this podcast episode: BBC In Our Time - Modernist Utopias
Shy Philosopher Night Procedure and Code of Ethics:
1. Discussion Style
We aim for a cooperative flow, like passing a ball among teammates rather than engaging in back-and-forth debates. Please share the “ball” so everyone has a voice.
2. Brief Points (2-3 Minutes)
Keep points concise so we can hear a variety of perspectives. Occasional exceptions may come up naturally, but our goal is inclusivity.
3. No Crosstalk
Respect the speaker’s time without interjecting or questioning mid-speech. If you’d like to add something, simply raise your hand and the facilitator will guide the flow.
4. Avoid Ad Hominem Remarks
Focus critiques on ideas, actions, or beliefs—not people. For example, say “This idea could have certain impacts” rather than “You’re wrong.” This ensures a respectful environment.
5. Respectful Engagement
As we are guests in someone’s home, let’s maintain a high level of respect for the space and one another. Mindfulness, patience, and courtesy are essential to making this gathering comfortable and enjoyable for all.
6. Cancellation Courtesy
If your plans change and you’re unable to attend, please let us know at least a day in advance by canceling your RSVP. Since space is limited, early notice helps ensure that someone else interested can join in your place. We really appreciate your understanding and help in making this a smooth, inclusive experience for everyone.
Looking forward to seeing you there!