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Parlour series events are hosted in members' homes, so they work a little differently from our public events. The group size will be smaller, so we give preference to people who have recently attended another event. If you're interested in joining, please add yourself to the waitlist!
The address will be posted as a private comment below, visible only to attendees. It is near the location pin that is visible publicly. Also, the hosts have a few fluffy felines!

Let’s consider:

  • What is political correctness, and what value does it bring to civil society? Is it primarily about kindness, justice, social coordination, reputation, or something else? When does it succeed, and when does it fail?
  • What creates political polarization? Is it driven more by media, incentives, social media algorithms, economic inequality, human tribal instincts, or something deeper?
  • How should a free society balance freedom of expression with the desire to create welcoming and respectful communities? When do changing social norms represent genuine moral progress, and when do they become coercive conformity?
  • Are people becoming more divided, or are divisions simply more visible than they used to be? What role do technology and modern institutions play in amplifying conflict?
  • How should we respond when someone says something we find offensive? Is the ideal response correction, curiosity, ignoring it, forgiveness, public criticism, or something else?
  • What habits or institutions help people disagree well? If you were designing a society from scratch, how would you encourage honest conversation across deep differences?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to the following podcast episode:

Shy Philosopher Night Procedure and Code of Ethics:
1. Discussion Style
We aim for a cooperative flow, like passing a ball among teammates rather than engaging in back-and-forth debates. Please share the “ball” so everyone has a voice.
2. Brief Points (2-3 Minutes)
Keep points concise so we can hear a variety of perspectives. Occasional exceptions may come up naturally, but our goal is inclusivity.
3. No Crosstalk
Respect the speaker’s time without interjecting or questioning mid-speech. If you’d like to add something, simply raise your hand and the facilitator will guide the flow.
4. Avoid Ad Hominem Remarks
Focus critiques on ideas, actions, or beliefs—not people. For example, say “This idea could have certain impacts” rather than “You’re wrong.” This ensures a respectful environment.
5. Respectful Engagement
As we are guests in someone’s home, let’s maintain a high level of respect for the space and one another. Mindfulness, patience, and courtesy are essential to making this gathering comfortable and enjoyable for all.
6. Cancellation Courtesy
If your plans change and you’re unable to attend, please let us know at least a day in advance by canceling your RSVP. Since space is limited, early notice helps ensure that someone else interested can join in your place. We really appreciate your understanding and help in making this a smooth, inclusive experience for everyone.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

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