Shy Philosophers on Hope

Let’s consider:

1. What is the difference between hope and optimism, and does hope require uncertainty?
2. How much of hope is a choice, and how much is temperament or circumstance?
3. Should we place hope in outcomes we cannot control, or only in our own actions?
4. Is false hope better than no hope, if it makes the present bearable?
5. When does hope stop sustaining us and start keeping us from accepting what cannot change?
6. Can a person live a meaningful life without hope, or is hope a condition for meaning?
7. Is hope something we can give to others, or only something we can feel ourselves?
8. What gives you hope today?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to this podcast episode:

• BBC In Our Time — “Hope”
• https://www.bbc.com/audio/play/m00017vl

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