Shy Philosophers on Attention

Let’s consider:

1. What is attention? What does it mean to pay attention to something?
2. What is the difference between paying attention to something and caring about it? Can we attend closely to things we don't value, or value things we rarely attend to?
3. How much control do we have over what we attend to? Are some things, like worries, pain or noise, simply impossible to ignore?
4. When a notification or a feed pulls your attention away, whose choice is that? How should responsibility be divided between individuals and the people who design the technology?
5. To what extent are we shaped by what we pay attention to? Could someone become a different person by changing where their attention goes?
6. Earlier generations worried that novels, radio and television would ruin concentration. Is today's concern different in kind, or part of a familiar pattern?
7. Do we owe our attention to anyone or anything, such as the people around us, the news or the natural world? Can being distracted ever be a way of failing someone?
8. Should attention be protected through collective means, such as regulation, design standards or shared spaces, or left to personal discipline? What might each approach cost?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can listen to this podcast episode:

• The Ezra Klein Show: Your Mind Is Being Fracked
• The historian of science D. Graham Burnett on what’s at stake in the rise of an extractive attention economy and how we can reclaim our attention.
• https://youtube.com/watch?v=ihGEL8ICXVM&pp

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